Originally Posted by CosmoCat
(Post 539145)
Ditch this friend NOW. They are hurting you and your emotional/social health. And, heck no, you'll do fine in college. Firstly (and honestly), you don't really have to have a "talent" to go to a good college. You just have to find something you love doing and somewhere that teaches it (what you love can be more than one thing, too). I remember one time I wanted to go to a college in Switzerland because this one guy got a degree in Human and Domestic Feline Relationships there and GOSH A WHOLE COLLEGE DEGREE ABOUT PEOPLE AND CATS HOW COOL WOULD THAT BE! Of course, I'm not really going to do that, but it just proves that you don't need a specific talent (art, music, sports, the typical stupid stuff that people think of first even though the idea of a talent is really just and opinion and quite vague). So, if you do okay in normal classes and you have hobbies (like most people do) you'll can get into a college.
Secondly, why the heck is she being so rude. Blaming people is a terrible thing and can really destroy your mental health. Also, this "friend" is being disrespectful of your body, your family, and your trust. She doesn't deserve to be your friend if she treats the things you love like this. Again, I shouldn't really be one to give friendship advice, but this is going too far. Ditch her and be very very clear that you don't want her so-called "friendship" anymore. If it makes her mad, well too bad, she brought this on herself and SHE CAN FREAKIN' SUCK IT UP. Hopefully, she'll take responsibility for her actions someday, but for now, you don't need any excuse to take care of yourself this time. This is for your own good! As I learned, there are other people out there who will gladly be your friends and, sometimes, you two will just run into each other and never part from there. (sad now because my friends live so far away TTuTT)
But, seriously, she needs to shut up and STOP. Do what you need to (as long as you're comfortable; at least let her know what you think about her attitude even though she'll probably just respond in a selfish, shallow way rather than actually understanding how much she is hurting you HER "FRIEND") I WEEP FOR HUMANITY.
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