Men: i feel uncomfortable when my gender and masculinity is criticized even in the slightest joking way. (*looks at women*) babe, make me a sandwich, kay?
guess what i don't care if this is a "gross generalization" because what that translates to is maybe i'm making you reevaluate your behavior. men, as a whole, and yes this is another generalization, can get away with so many sexist comments, ideas, and ridiculous shit. i'm sick of my anger being laughed at. i'm sick of guys trying to make decisions about my body. i'm sO SICK OF BEING THOUGHT OF AS PROPERTY, BECAUSE I'M NOT. I'M A HUMAN BEING AND I HAPPEN TO BE A GIRL. i'm tired of you telling me to calm down when i pick out shitty comments that you've made because you're not ready to deal with them. i'm tired of being thought of as silly or stupid because i express my opinions in a way that you can't handle. when i say "i'm sorry if this is offensive" i mean "i'm sorry if your ego can't handle it". i want the boys, the men in my life to sit down and think about the shit that they talk and make an effort to, you know, maybe not. so yeah, i'm a feminazi bitch. i get it. but guess what? i don't care about your opinions of me, because i've learned not to. this is one of the skills i've had to pick up living the life of a feminine person.
and no, this is not to one person, but to several who have crapped on my day and made it so that my anger towards men as a whole is boiling. stop generalizing women as your playthings, and i'll stop generalizing men as assholes.
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