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Ember 07-05-2014 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Athenabrain1 (Post 546907)
Oh, now she's insulting me even more.
"Alice est stupide. Stupido. Dummy. Ugly. Fat. Stupid."

Honey, that relationship is toxic. You need to get out of it. All she will ever do is tear you down. You deserve so much more than that. End it. It'll be hard, but honestly, you just need to get out of that situation. ASAP.

Lena 07-05-2014 10:46 PM

i'm so so done right now i'm just so fucking done i've had my deepest thoughts and musings laughed at today and idk whats even going on with my friends and family and someone i love kept laughing at me and making me feel bad about myself even if he didn't mean to and just i can't do it right now

Athenabrain1 07-05-2014 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Lena (Post 546911)
i'm so so done right now i'm just so fucking done i've had my deepest thoughts and musings laughed at today and idk whats even going on with my friends and family and someone i love kept laughing at me and making me feel bad about myself even if he didn't mean to and just i can't do it right now

Aww, Lena.
I have something for you to do right now.
Go to the Quiet Place Project website right now and do the Comfort Spot. Now.
I hope you feel more confident and better, even if you don't do the CS.
I'll never laugh at you.

Athenabrain1 07-05-2014 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Ember (Post 546908)
Honey, that relationship is toxic. You need to get out of it. All she will ever do is tear you down. You deserve so much more than that. End it. It'll be hard, but honestly, you just need to get out of that situation. ASAP.

I'm trying my best to ignore her Instagram messages and texts.
She's a good friend, but only for a second. Then she disappears.

Athenabrain1 07-05-2014 10:56 PM

Even better, Lena, the thoughts room.

maxi 07-05-2014 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by rebecca (Post 546441)
Reading War and Peace in ten days?
If I get myself a copy, I'll take you up on that.

I'm sure you could. :P

maxi 07-05-2014 11:07 PM

204 pages in.

Puckbrina159 07-05-2014 11:24 PM

It had obviously been way too long since I last cried anyway.

CosmoCat 07-05-2014 11:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Puckbrina159 (Post 546917)
It had obviously been way too long since I last cried anyway.

same. finally cried last night...and the night before..and probably tonight...just so long as nobody hears/sees me, it's okay...

Ember 07-05-2014 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Athenabrain1 (Post 546913)
I'm trying my best to ignore her Instagram messages and texts.
She's a good friend, but only for a second. Then she disappears.

You should straight up tell her your feelings. Tell her you're sick of her bs, you need a friend who respects you, not someone who tears you down.

I mean I guess I'm not in your situation but my opinion from what I've heard is that she's a brat and you need to get out of that relationship. It obviously is hurting you, and I've learned that a relationship like that isn't helping anyone. Talk to her. You don't have to be like, "I hate you we aren't friends anymore," but just tell her how you feel. If she gives you any bs just tell her it's over. Maybe the relationship can be repaired but from what you've said it should have ended a long time ago. You don't have to be mean about it, just explain how her comments make you feel. And if she says anything other than, "I'm sorry" drop her.

Just my opinion maybe I'm not good with advice but remember that you deserve better company than her. Friends are supposed to make you laugh and make you feel good about yourself. They should never bring you down.

Hopefully it works out. Don't let her comments get to you.


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