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I have a Heroic Quest myth due on Monday (having to follow the Monomyth guidelines), science problems on Heat and Thermal Energy due, and math homework. I also have to read "The Odyssey" and take a test over it on Monday. Oh, and I have to read "It's All in You Head" for my expanded learning program class. -_-
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Okay, this is actually serious.
My grandparents have these really tiny black bugs in their house. They bite my grandparents and burrow under their skin and lay larva. We've checked everything on the web but there's literally nothing that matches the description of these bugs. They've tried fumigating the house and everything, but the bugs are still there. My grandparents don't want to leave their house because they feel bad for having to stay at other people's houses/use their kids' money to stay at hotels. My grandma just had an anxiety attack today and my grandpa's depressed. Please guys, I just need your prayers. If you know anything about these bugs, please tell me... because my grandparents are already really old and I don't want anymore stress being placed on them. |
I might start a venting novel. Each chapter a new vent.
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I'm worried about my cat..he hasn't come in about a day and a night and he had these wounds yesterday...i need to know my kitty is okay. :(
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http://www.google.com.hk/search?q=wo...VAQAnQv2AOkfM: My dad says he's seen those a lot when he was a kid and when he slaps them, they're full of blood. He's confirmed that they're tiny, black, bite people and burrow under their skin and lay larva, so it might be wood fleas. |
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I read it somewhere that if you tighten your muscles when a mosquito is on you, they'd burst from too much blood.
Is it snowing in wherever you live, Sandy? Last night was so warm that I actually needed to switch on the air-conditioning -_- This morning is better, though. |
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I think what Stephanie was trying to say is that her grandparent's health is in immediate danger from an outside source, opposed to many of the posts on this thread relating to personal, internal problems. I'm not saying that those internal problems aren't serious, because they are, but they're serious in a different way. They're something you work through, while a problem like hers needs to be remedied quickly with professional help. See what I'm getting at? |
My friend (We'll call her Ella) we were at this birthday party for a girl in my class, and Ella and this other girl (we'll call her Rosalyn) are really good friends. However, Ella keeps blowing me off for Rosalyn, and it goddamn hurts when she does. It makes me feel like I'm inferior, like she doesn't care about me, which she does, but she cares for Rosalyn more.
She'll probably forget that she invited me over on monday anyway. :/ |
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This is a kinda stupid vent but I need to get it out. Not a very big problem though.
So ever since I was a baby my dad has been leaving at least five days a week, and once he left for six months straight (Military). So I'm kind of used to that now, but I've had to live with my mother most of the time, and quite frankly, she hates me. She's even said it before. But I don't like my dad very much either; whenever he comes home he's always either ignoring us or yelling at us. So the highlights of my day are when neither of my parents are alone. But even when I don't really like them, it hurts to know neither of them are going to be home on Christmas, but I got to thinking I really don't care. I'm just going to force myself not to care. They say they're gone at work all of the time because they care, but I wonder if they just leave because they don't like me. It also hurts when your mother says "What's wrong with you? You've become mean and nasty. I don't like you." I think it's her being mean and nasty. She keeps going on and on about how bad I am because I left two fricking glasses on the counter. She gets angry over the smallest things. I don't know what to do. She hates me. I don't like her. Sometimes I just want to run away. Maybe I will someday. But I do know that once I leave for college, I'm not coming back. |
This is a really weird vent. It's not actually emotional or about me. It's just a couple of pet peeves I want to rant about.
Why do people talk during the Mourner's Kaddish? Look I at least don't feel disrespected when you blabber on during the Amidah or the Maariv Aravim, but during the freaking Mourner's Kaddish? Do you even know what the Mourner's Kaddish IS? It's the prayer said for DEAD PEOPLE. This is like having a picnic on your grandfather's grave. Seriously. Shut up. Christmas. *sigh* Y U NO SHUT UP?! It's November. No, it's not the Christmas Season. It's November. Do you see it snowing anywhere? No. Do you hear sleigh bells? No, because SANTA DOES NOT EXIST AND FOR GOD'S SAKE HAVE SOME MERCY! I don't need to hear "The Most Wonderful Time of the Year" every freaking time I walk into any freaking place for the entire months of November and December, because it's NOT the most wonderful time of the year, thanks to you! What if I just blasted Mi Chamocha in every single place anywhere or the entire month of April? You wouldn't like that, would you? STOP DOING VOCAL RUNS WE ALL KNOW YOU CAN BUT THE SONG NEEDS STRAIGHT SINGING FOR GOD'S SAKE! You know that it's really weird and creepy when you look at my computer screen during History class. You know what I'm writing about, I don't appreciate you reading it, thank you very much. Yes, I know that's what she said. Yes, I get what you're saying. You don't need to say it after every sentence. No, you're not as good at chemistry as you think you are. SO PRETENTIOUS OH MY GOD. Look, I love you, man, but seriously. It's a garden hose. It has nothing to do with loneliness or solitude or isolation or any of your philosophical crap. It's a GARDEN HOSE. You know what it represents? NOTHING. IT'S A GARDEN HOSE, GODDAMMIT. Not everything has a really deep meaning. Sometimes it's just there because it's there, okay? Whew. Carry on. |
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Speaking of religion....look, I know some Hollywood dude wrote New Normal, but if you saw the latest episode, you probably remember the priest's speech about church. It made me feel hope for the Catholic church. And, another thing. I'm getting Confirmed in May, and we went to church yesterday. I haven't been to church outside of my school's weekly mass in two years. Not even for Christmas. It's like I'm not even Catholic. It's a new Year of Faith, and I've started praying before bed. I want to start going to church every Sunday again. I really want to commit to my faith. |
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Dear anyone who feels very, very strongly about religion, I am not trying to offend you, but I need to get this out.
I don't want to be catholic, or christian, and I don't want to be hindi either? Just STOP. Stop the pressure, I'm 13. I don't care if I LOOK Indian, stop asking me if I'm native american. Just STOP everything, first, race (which doesn't exist anyway) has nothing to do with skin color, second, I'm too young to be catholic, christian or hindi. I have till January, and I don't need a god to follow. |
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(Just needed to add this, you're not to young to be catholic, christian . . .. etc XD) Sorry :3 Just had to say that . . . . |
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Your parents are correct :3 |
Part One
Alternatives for when you’re feeling angry or restless: Scribble on photos of people in magazines Viciously stab an orange Throw an apple/pair of socks against the wall Have a pillow fight with the wall Scream very loudly Tear apart newspapers, photos, or magazines Go to the gym, dance, exercise Listen to music and sing along loudly Draw a picture of what is making you angry Beat up a stuffed bear Pop bubble wrap Pop balloons Splatter paint Scribble on a piece of paper until the whole page is black Filling a piece of paper with drawing cross hatches Throw darts at a dartboard Go for a run Write your feelings on paper then rip it up Use stress relievers Build a fort of pillows and then destroy it Throw ice cubes at the bathtub wall, at a tree, etc Get out a fine tooth comb and vigorously brush the fur of a stuffed animal (but use gentle vigor) Slash an empty plastic soda bottle or a piece of heavy cardboard or an old shirt or sock Make a soft cloth doll to represent the things you are angry at; cut and tear it instead of yourself Flatten aluminium cans for recycling, seeing how fast you can go On a sketch or photo of yourself, mark in red ink what you want to do. Cut and tear the picture Break sticks Cut up fruits Make yourself as comfortable as possible Stomp around in heavy shoes Play handball or tennis Yell at what you are breaking and tell it why you are angry, hurt, upset, etc. Buy a cheap plate and decorate it with markers, stickers, cut outs from magazines, words, images, what ever that expresses your pain and sadness and when you’re done, smash it. (Please be careful when doing this) Alternatives that will give you a sensation (other than pain) without harming yourself: Hold ice in your hands, against your arm, or in your mouth Run your hands under freezing cold water Wax your legs Drink freezing cold water Splash your face with cold water Put PVA/Elmer’s glue on your hands then peel it off Massage where you want to hurt yourself Take a hot shower/bath Jump up and down to get some sensation in your feet Write or paint on yourself Arm wrestle with a member of your family Take a cold bath Bite into a hot pepper or chew a piece of ginger root Rub liniment under your nose Put tiger balm on the places you want to cut. (Tiger balm is a muscle relaxant cream that induces a tingly sensation. You can find it in most health food stores and vitamin stores.) Alternatives that will distract you or take up time: Say “I’ll self harm in fifteen minutes if I still want to” and keep going for periods of fifteen minutes until the urge fades Color your hair Count up to ten getting louder until you are screaming Sing on the karaoke machine Complete something you’ve been putting off Take up a new hobby Make a cup of tea Tell and laugh at jokes Play solitaire Count up to 500 or 1000 Surf the net Make as many words out of your full name as possible Count ceiling tiles or lights Search ridiculous things on the web Colour coordinate your wardrobe Play with toys, such as a slinky Go to the park and play on the swings Call up an old friend Go “people watching” Carry safe, rather than sharp, things in your pockets Do school work Play a musical instrument Watch TV or a movie Paint your nails Alphabetize your CDs or books Cook Make origami to occupy your hands Doodle on sheets of paper Dress up or try on old clothes Play computer games or painting programs, such as photoshop Write out lyrics to your favorite song Play a sport Read a book/magazine Do a crossword Draw a comic strip Make a chain link out of paper counting the hours or days you’ve been self harm free using pretty colored paper Knit, sew, or make a necklace Make ‘scoobies’ - braid pieces of plastic or lace, to keep your hands busy Buy a plant and take care of it Hunt for things on eBay or Amazon Browse the forums Go shopping Memorize a poem with meaning Learn to swear in another language Look up words in a dictionary Play hide-and-seek with your siblings Go outside and watch the clouds roll by Plan a party Find out if any concerts will be in your area Make your own dance routine Trace your hand on a piece of paper; on your thumb, write something you like to look at; on your index finger, write something you like to touch; on your middle finger, write your favorite scent; on your ring finger, write something you like the taste of; on your pinky finger, write something you like to listen to; on your palm, write something you like about yourself Plan regular activities for your most difficult time of day Finish homework before it’s due Take a break from mental processing Notice black and white thinking Get out on your own, get away from the stress Go on YouTube Make a scrapbook Color in a picture or coloring book. Make a phone list of people you can call for support. Allow yourself to use it. Pay attention to your breathing (breath slowly, in through your nose and out through your mouth) Pay attention to the rhythmic motions of your body (walking, stretching, etc.) Learn HALT signals (hungry, angry, lonely, tired) Choose a random object, like a paper clip, and try to list 30 different uses for it Pick a subject and research it on the web - alternatively, pick something to research and then keep clicking on links, trying to get as far away from the original topic as you can. Take a small step towards a goal you have. Alternatives that are completely bizarre. At the least, you’ll have a laugh: Crawl on all fours and bark like a dog or another animal Run around outside screaming Laugh for no reason whatsoever Make funny faces in a mirror Without turning orange, self tan Pluck your eyebrows Put faces on apples, oranges, or other sorts of food Go to the zoo and name all of the animals Color on the walls Blow bubbles Pull weeds in the garden This is really helpful, you guys. I was gonna post it on the Cutting Thread, but really... this is more general in places. <3 |
Part Two
Alternatives for when you’re feeling guilty, sad, or lonely: Congratulate yourself on each minute you go without self harming Draw or paint Look at the sky Instead of punishing yourself by self harming, punish yourself by not self harming Call a friend and ask for company Buy a cuddly toy Give someone a hug with a smile Put a face mask on Watch a favorite TV show or movie Eat something ridiculously sweet Remember a happy moment and relive it for a while in your head Treat yourself to some chocolate Try to imagine the future and plan things you want to do Look at things that are special to you Compliment someone else Make sculptures Watch fish Let yourself cry Play with a pet Have or give a massage Imagine yourself living in a perfect home and describe it in your mind If you’re religious, read the bible or pray Light a candle and watch the flame (but please be careful) Go chat in the chat room Allow yourself to cry; crying is a healthy release of emotion Accept a gift from a friend Carry tokens to remind you of peaceful comforting things/people Take a hot bath with bath oil or bubbles Curl up under a comforter with hot cocoa and a good book Make affirmation tapes inside you that are good, kind, gentle (Sometimes you can do this by writing down the negative thoughts and then physically re-writing them into positive messages) Make a tray of special treats and tuck yourself into bed with it and watch TV or read Alternatives for when you’re feeling panicky or scared: “See, hear and feel”-5 things, then 4, then 3 and countdown to one which will make you focus on your surroundings and will calm you down Listen to soothing music; have a CD with motivational songs that you can listen to Meditate or do yoga Name all of your soft toys Hug a pillow or soft toy Hyper focus on something Do a “reality check list” – write down all the things you can list about where you are now (e.g. It is the 9th November 2004, I’m a room and everything is going to be alright) With permission, give someone a hug Drink herbal tea Crunch ice Hug a tree Go for a walk if it’s safe to do so Feel your pulse to prove you’re alive Go outside and attempt to catch butterflies or lizards Put your feet firmly on the floor Accept where you are in the process. Beating yourself up, only makes it worse Touch something familiar/safe Leave the room Lay on your back in bed comfortably (eyes closed), and breathe in for 4, hold for 2, out for 4, hold for 2. Make sure to fill your belly up with air, not your chest. If your shoulders are going up, keep working on it. When you’re comfortable breathing, put your hand on your belly and rub up and down in time with your breathing. If your mind wanders to other things, move it back to focusing ONLY on the synchronized movement of your hand and breathing. Give yourself permission to…. (Keep it safe) Alternatives that will hopefully make you think twice about harming yourself: Think about how you don’t want scars Treat yourself nicely Remember that you don’t have to hurt yourself just because you’re thinking about self harm Create a safe place to go Acknowledge that self harm is harmful behavior: say “I want to hurt myself” rather than “I want to cut” Repeat to yourself “I don’t deserve to be hurt” even if you don’t believe it Remember that you always have the choice not to cut: it’s up to you what you do Think about how you may feel guilty after self harming Remind yourself that the urge to self harm is impulsive: you will only feel like cutting for short bursts of time Avoid temptation Get your friends to make you friendship bracelets: wear them around your wrists to remind you of them when you want to cut Be with other people Make your own list of things to do instead of self harm Make a list of your positive character traits Be nice to your family, who in return, will hopefully be nice to you Put a band-aid on the area where you’d like to self harm Recognize and acknowledge the choices you have NOW Pay attention to the changes needed to make you feel safe Notice “choices” versus “dilemmas” Lose the “should-could-have to” words. Try… “What if” Kiss the places you want to SH or kiss the places you have healing wounds. It can be a reminder that you care about myself and that you don’t want this Choose your way of thinking, try to resist following old thinking patterns The Butterfly project- draw a butterfly on the place(s) that you would self harm and if the butterfly fades without self-harming, it means it has lived and flown away, giving a sense of achievement. Whereas if you do self-harm with the butterfly there; you will have to wash it off. If that does happen, you can start again by drawing a new one on. You can name the butterfly after someone you love. Write the name of a loved one [a friend, family member, or anyone else who cares about you] and write their name where you want to self harm. When you go to self harm remember how much they care and wouldn’t want you to harm yourself. think about what you would say to a friend who was struggling with the same things you are and try to be a good friend to yourself. Make a bracelet out duct tape, and put a line on it every day (Or any period of time) you go without self harm. When it’s full of lines, take it off and make a chain out of all the bracelets and hang it up somewhere where you can be reminded of your great progress. Alternatives that give the illusion of seeing something similar to blood: Draw on yourself with a red pen or body paint Cover yourself with plasters where you want to cut Give yourself a henna or fake tattoo Make “wounds” with makeup, like lipstick Take a small bottle of liquid red food coloring and warm it slightly by dropping it into a cup of hot water for a few minutes. Uncap the bottle and press its tip against the place you want to cut. Draw the bottle in a cutting motion while squeezing it slightly to let the food color trickle out. Draw on the areas you want to cut using ice that you’ve made by dropping six or seven drops of red food color into each of the ice-cube tray wells. Paint yourself with red tempera paint. ‘Cut’ your skin with nail polish (it feels cold, but it’s hard to get off) Alternatives to help you sort through your feelings: Phone a friend and talk to them Make a collage of how you feel Negotiate with yourself Identify what is hurting so bad that you need to express it in this way Write your feelings in a diary Free write (Write down whatever you’re thinking at that moment, even if it doesn’t make sense) Make lists of everything such as blessings in your life Make a notebook of song lyrics that you relate to Call a hotline Write a letter to someone telling them how you feel (but you don’t have to send it if you decide not to) Start a grateful journal where everyday you write down three: good things that happened/ things that you accomplished/ are grateful for/ made you smile. Make sure the journal is strictly for positive things. Then when you feel down you can go back and look at it. Okay, that's all! :'D |
HEATHER. I have another one.
Cut the sleeves off an old shirt. Or the collar. Y'know, so it falls off one shoulder. Especially if your parents don't approve. Wear it with a tank top. Then rip up some jeans/draw on them. Do your hair crazy. Put on make-up. Take a thousand pictures of yourself. Feel like like a rebel. |
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I've never had any troubles with self-harm. I tend to punish myself in different, non-physical ways. |
Ugh, would you shut the hell up? I'm hungry too! I'm tired too, I want my parent to be home too! So just shut up and stop whining and being mean to me and generally being horrible. Can't you just go to sleep, and deal with it? You don't see me doing what you're doing, do you? NO! Because I'm civil, and I can wait patiently 'til they get home. I can make myself food, and not complain about what it is! You're so intollerable, you know that? But somehow, I love you anyway.
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I hate hormones.
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I hadn't cut for a few months, but I did today.
But… I don't feel anything about it. I really don't care. |
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Kinda like this guy, but not really. http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-na0ZuqQrt2...20110705-1.jpg But with this hair!! (I don't know why I think it's so pure awesomeness, but it is.) http://static1.fjcdn.com/comments/Th...8031aa6774.jpg Jeans. http://www.denimsandjeans.com/wp-con...razy-jeans.jpg And this makeup, just because. http://d2tq98mqfjyz2l.cloudfront.net...827750238.jpeg Yeah… |
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