| JoMarch |
04-28-2014 08:20 PM |
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Originally Posted by CosmoCat
(Post 528574)
Um, as far as I'm aware nothing can live off of lettuce alone. ;_; Try entire salads with healthy dressings and yeah, it's actually worse for you to eat just one "healthy" food as opposed to eating a large variety of healthy foods. And I also saw a diagram of body fat the other day that shows if you do actually reduce the fat in your body, it's leaving the areas in your organs first. Your thighs aren't going to shrink instantly if you diet; the fat around your stomach and intestines (where your can't see it!) is going to shrink and that is way better for you. And if she still thinks she's fat, it's actually a fact that girls are supposed to have more body fat than boys! So, girls are really supposed to be a little chubbier or squishier, but that's really super normal.
Also, don't do that kind of stuff for a guy. I really really really want a boyfriend, but boys are not the reason I wear lipstick and earrings and high heels. I want to love myself and feel good about myself by doing so. I would like others' approval, but I eventually grew to understand that it's not something I need. So don't change yourself or hurt yourself to try to please someone else. It will only end badly and, heck, people usually don't get married in highschool (adults like to pressure kids into being in relationships young but I probably won't start dating until college) so don't worry too much about that guy you liked in middle school. Seriously, I don't even know where my 5th grade crush lives anymore so it would have been a waste if I had tried to lose weight to get him to notice me. I know this is kind of blunt, but it's the best advice I could offer. I hope your friend comes to realize what she is doing and that she can love herself just as she is. ^u^
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thank you so much
I really freaking hope she only eats lettuce for lunch I just sort of assume she has better breakfasts and dinners
and yeah I've told her that she has to eat more than lettuce and that she should try real salad or a sandwich or something
but I will try to tell her some of this stuff and hopefully it will help
tbh I don't like the way she is about crushes. like she says sexual stuff too and I think she's just joking but she seems pretty obsessed with this dude
and while she says she knows he'll never love her she goes and starts dieting anyway ?? like no you're beautiful
agghhhasdfghjkl sorry guys I just don't know reasoning with her hasn't really helped and I kinda feel like she hates me now but I'll try anyway |
