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what are the gender stereotypes of nb people i have been leginitimately wondering this and tbh there are none woo

ya ya

i think like the one main stereotype (idk if it is a stereotype) for nonbinary people (at least for dfab nonbinary people) is being masculine? i see a lot of dfab nonbinary people who consider their gender expression to be androgynous, yet think that androgyny = masculine when it doesnt. i don't know about dmab nonbinary people though. i haven't really seen any other stereotypes, although that might actually just be because there is an erasure of nonbinary people :/
im a dfab binary trans boy though, so if any nonbinary person wants to correct me or wants me to change or delete this, i totally will.
oh yeah, do you still identify as nonbinary?

yeah elliot I think I said all genders because I know there are other genders like nonbinary genders but I know next to nothing about them so I didn't want to make any assumptions and say something I just wanted to include them idk if that was right if not sorry
thank you for the info

YA ya like on tumblr for example like androgynous dfab people will be dressing/looking masculine and idk it doesn't bug me but idk
yeah i think there's not stereotypes bc 1. people think it doesn't exist 2. or people don't know about them so

i am not cis but im not trans so yeah yeah i'm pretty sure i think i'll always be confused though

yeah i think that was good

ya so basically what i meant :/
o ok cool

#imbinary

I feel like tumblr made me accept people as they are. I mean, before, I had nothing against gay families or transgender people or anyone else. It was awkward at first, but you come to realize people are people. No matter who they love. Or what their bodies look like. And I kind of think that that's the good thing about social media. You become more accepting about the people around you because they're human beings like you and me. And I find that beautiful. I didn't really know much about this stuff but once people are educated, it's just so much better. Because we're not different at all and I hate it when people thinks that gay people or transgender people are inferior or superior. Because we should all just be equal. And it bothers me to know that some people don't except others because somebody else is gay or transgender. Like, dude, love however you want. You are cool the way you are, you know?

ya ya i just basically repeated you sorry

i know HEY QUESTION why do people always say they 'don't trust binary trans guys' like???/?//// what? i don't get it y so much hate and the people im taking about are for some reason usually nb or otherkin or both
YES i have been educating my friends on it and they don't give a shit tbh but oh well
i don't think everyone will ever be equal tbh there will always be people that act more superior and believe they are

i hate how if a girl is dating a dmab girl and she says she's straight it's like?? o u love genitals OKAY no u r not straight sorry to break it to you

ugh sorry i don't know much tbh

I know, its frustrating. Some people just don't care and that bothers me. I mean, I guess you're right. We can't ever be EXACTLY EQUAL no matter how hard we try but... the best we can do is educate others so that the understand and accept. :/

trans men can be transmisogynistic bc trans men have more privilege than trans women. trans men can also be truscums.

okAY I AM JUST GOING TO USE THIS PLACE TO RANT ABOUT KUROSHITSUJI AKA BLACK BUTLER
MOSTLY THE FANDOM BECAUSE IF I RANT ABOUT THE SHOW I CAN ALMOST GUARANTEE YOU THAT I. WILL. EXPLODE.

alright so Kuroshitsuji fandom I have one question for you: hoW MANY OF YOU ARE ACTUALLY SANE?!
Well, I mean, I'm not sane, but I'm talking about it in a particular sense. Excuse me, what I meant to say is
hoW MANY OF YOU AREN'T FUCKED UP FANGIRLS
SERIOUSLY YOU PEOPLE SCARE ME
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU AND YOU ARE CREEPY AND INSANE FANGIRLS TO ONE CHARACTER OR ANOTHER BUT IT IS ALMOST ALWAYS ONE SINGULAR CHARACTER.
SERIOUSLY. DON'T. HATE. ON. ANY. OF. THESE. CHARACTERS.
ALSO SOME OF YOU ARE SO HOPELESSLY "IN LOVE" THAT CAN I JUST TELL YOU TO PLEASE GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER.
PLEASE.
SOME OF YOU ARE CREEPILY YANDERE AND HOLY FUCKING NAZI MEATBALLS (phrase copywrighted to my best female friend, D) YOU SCARE ME ALSO PLEASE GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER.
just ugh I hate most of you so much and like why this fandom why because the show is a beautiful thing but like
ALSO JUST PLEASE. PLEASE. I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE TAKE THIS SHOW TOO LIGHTLY.
YOU DO NOT KNOW HOW MUCH THIS SHIT RUINED ME.
(but I'm reading Death Note so I'm only going to ruin myself further)

OH ok right right tumblr makes more sense now

i wish i never joined tumblr tbh

i hate tumblr bc of the fandoms and the bs but im honestly glad i did join
. if youre saying u hate it bc of the anger though, heres my thoughts. theres a lot of justified anger that people will mistake as hate on there. i dont think ill ever say i hate cis people but only because i would have so many people on my ass. i dont actually HATE all cis people, its just that when ive dealt with enough transbigotry and i feel so beaten down by cis ppl that day, it pops into my mind.i HAVE said "cis people make me feel unsafe" and if someone said "EVERY CIS PERSON U KNOW MAKES YOU FEEL UNSAFE?" my answer would be yes. i dont even have a really safe place to vent with my biggest ally aka my best friend. im able bodied, a guy, binary, and part of other priviliged groups, but i would understand if a person who isnt part of those groups generalized them negatively out of justified anger on their personal blog(as long as its nothing that would be wishing harm upon someone) . however if it was SENT to someone i wouldnt be ok with that.
im not really making sense right now cause its night. if this isnt your problem with tumblr tho you SHOULD PROBABLY IGNORE THIS.

#"notallcispplarecissexist"
#umittakesmonthsevenyearsfortransppltostopbeingint ernallycissexist
#souhigettheressomecispplbutlikemaybeonly5

Hey. I'm pretty much invisible these days idk probably no one missed me ill just go now?

of course we missed you. we probably didn't say anything about it, because people like to ignore what hurts, but we missed you.

Shut up you lil shit, we're friends, right? We usually aren't on at the same time bc timezones, but I wish I got to talk to you more.

And you aren't the only one who feels invisible.

Um, yeah. Youz an awesome person so don't think we didn't miss you!!!! ^_^ You should come on more often. I feel like a stalker, I'm on all the time. xD

tw
 

*cuts*
*remembers we have injections today... On that same arm*

kcuf

No no no we did miss you! don't go D: we like it when you're here so stay, pleasseeee?

Tumblr has educated me, which is good, but everyone's so... Angry, about everything, there. I used to just stick to the 'humour' side of it, and then those people turned into sjw's and I was like??? What
I get it, people have a right to be angry, but 100% of the time is like hfknafldfnkldcslisfh
Yeah it's on like a read more and not specifically at someone it's alright like be angry, eye hurt you but when they use the @ feature or an ask box that's when it becomes problematic

No one's ever asked me a question and I'm cool with that. :3 But I agree with you. They complain about life 24/7 and I'm like dude just pick yourself and live it the way it deserves to be lived. But it's really motivational, too. Which is great.

lalalala dr who-i-ness

idk i can get on with humour but problematic humour? no thanks.

idk i mean if u dont wanna see it just blacklist it i dont have a person to vent to and i face transphobia everyday so tumblrs my place to vent

whats your guises tumblr

No, no, venting is fine. It's good to get it all out. But people who are just depressed and say "My life sucks" or "Wish I could lose weight" or "I wish I was hotter" I mean... why. Live your life happily, like who cares what other people look like or who they love? We're all human beings so I don't get why everyone hates themselves.

not EVERYONE does. and please don't call it 'just' depression. it's a serious mental illness. sometimes your mind doesn't ALLOW you to live your life happily, no matter how hard you try. and depression at its worst is when you don't even try anymore. you physically and mentally /can't/ do anything. of course logically you know that you're human and prone to mistakes and stupidity and weight issues etc., but that doesn't mean we aren't very hard on ourselves about it and it doesn't mean that we can control how positive our self image is. we all have reasons for hating ourselves. it's not /just/ 'my life sucks' or 'i wish i was hotter.' it's that with a million other things we're afraid to say lest people see us for the true monsters of humanity that we think we are. depression is hatred. depression is knowing that you are the worst. depression is hating yourself. depression cannot be controlled easily. depression isn't just a mood. sorry for ranting at you, but as a clinically depressed person i felt i had to express myself on this one.

ok but what if they legitimately think they /are/ fat even if they're not and even though they believe they're fat they still want people to think they're skinny and they need confirmation that they're beautiful to others even if they're not to themselves so they say that so that others will reassure them and they can rest easy with convincing others they're skinny and work on convincing themselves

Don't apologize. Actually, thank you. I'm sorry for saying "just' depressed... probably very inconsiderate of me. But staying around positivity, trying your hardest. Even when you feel like it's so hard and you just want to give up, that's when you should push the hardest. I just hate seeing people who believe that they don't deserve to live a happy life because they have a mental illness, and that mental illness is preventing them from living happily. There are people who have ADHD or Dyslexia and they don't use is as an excuse to be lazy, but they use it as a tool, they strive further. Maybe that means they have to work a lot harder than the average person, but they try. And I think that's the most important thing. I'm not telling you how to live your life, God, no. I don't have the right to do that. But I want you to know that there's always a way. Even when you hate yourself. Because everyone's been there. And it's crawling back out of the empty void that's the most important part. It sucks. I can't even begin to imagine you guys are going through. But there's a way. There's always a way. Always.

fuck life
fuck cancer
and if god exists fuck him too
fuck everything i want to fucking punch something

u took the words out of my keyboard

but my friend is like this and she's been at it for like a year and now we're all fucking tired of it and of her becuase all of us are fucking obese if she is fat

she has a bmi of fourteen

fucking fourteen

she needs to address it instead of complaining 24/7 about it


*hugs* I know cancer is a bitch and i know that doesn't cover it at all but it's okay and it will be okay I promise *hugs for infinity*

my friend is in the fuckin hospital right now and her heart's already stopped twice and fuck holy shit
and fuck we haven't even been friends that long but jesus and what about thomas and sam

if she's not ok i s2g im just gonna fuckin dig up some more blades

thank you so much because its so hard to even feel like im a decent human being.

abt the adhd and dyslexia bit: newsflash not every person with a mental illness is like that.
im so sick of hearing it gets better i just wanna hear its okay to not be okay. because my anxiety and paranoia hasnt gotten any better, just worse. thanks though.

no no no no no no no no I wish I could do something from here and saying sorry won't really do anything.

but i'm sorry.

because it's all i can do or say and I really hope she gets better. i can't even begin to understand what you're going through but please. omg i don't even know what to say. i've never really known anyone with cancer and no. no blades. please. and there's absolutely nothing i can do from here but i hate seeing you guys in pain just please. no.

isaac: oh my gosh im rly sorry i hope shes okay dude

Oh my gosh, Tredom, I'm sooo, so sorry about your friend!! D: I really do hope she'll be alright! Keep us updated on how she's doing, alright?

thanks guys

and wait shit ok forgot to mention can u guys not quote that post

Yeah, I know that. But I don't even understand what people go through everyday when they have mental illnesses so please excuse my naivety. I just... I don't know. I mean, we've all felt pain like that. Loneliness, hating ourselves, wishing everything would just be perfect. And when I compare my problems to yours... I feel like a wimp. Because you guys are so strong and I see you coming on here everyday (or often, anyway) and you put up with all the stupid stuff in life and I complain about stupidest things. And every day you're here I know you're OK. Actually, maybe not OK. But you're still here. And I feel so stupid but you guys actually let me see what you go through. And what sucks the most is people who just think that what you put up with is just nonsense. Because, in all honesty, that's what I thought before I met you all. And you guys... I don't know, educated me in a way nobody else every could. As sappy as it sounds, thank you. So I'm so sorry for whatever I've ever said or done to offend you because I honestly wish I could do something. I feel so useless just sitting here and not being able to help you guys.


I just hate that I can't do anything.

and she's fucking signing packets to leave the goddam hospital

@isaac: oh my god i'm so sorry i really hope she's okay *hugs u really tight*

oh my god, i hope she's okay isaac *hugs*


SO i had a meeting with my co ord today and she addressed it with the girl and stuff. she called my mum about it