:( I feel jealous. My friend Ella (we've had a lot of problems over the years) is spending all her time with a girl I'll call T. She holds her hand, encourages her to join her to visit her locker, talks to her, etc. We've had this issue before but I always back down and apologize for blowing up at her. I don't want to talk to her about it, but I want her to act like she likes me too.

:( Well first, it's kinda weird they're holding hands. O_O Anyways, talking to her about it is about the only thing you can do if you wanna keep being friends with her. You don't have to blow up at her, but you can talk to her in a calm voice and try to get her to understand your points. That'll make her understand your point of view. :) I've had this problem before, and I didn't want to talk to her either, but once I did things got better. And if Ella gets mad at you for standing up to her, she wasn't a true friend to begin with. I know it's kinda hard to think of losing a friend, but sometimes that's what's best, because once you move apart from Ella, maybe you'll meet and even better friend; one who won't treat you like that.
Good luck!

Thanks. And they hold hands because its a thing at our school, don't ask me why cause i don't know. XD

I hold hands with my friends. ._.

When we had a night walk (without torches 8D) during camping, my friend clutched my hand because she was scared. XD

o_o I always hold my sis-in-law's hand. And (when I was still talking to them) my sister's hands, too. I don't really hold anyone's hands that's outside of my family though, but I HAVE held a friend's hand a couple of times.

*all this hand holding talk brings back a memory*
x_x OHGOSH. That freaked me out. A guy who (apparently) had a crush on me tried to hold my hand on the bus, once...XD it's kinda funny when I think about it now, but back then, I was like, "gfcasvshkvfjhvdfkjdbf--DUDE! PERSONAL SPACE! o_e What are you DOING?"

._.

I. Hate. Algebra.

*bangs head against the wall*

You are epyk. :D


Whenever I hold hands with my friends, dudes from my class keep on saying we're lesbians. ._.

WTF.

Well, I don't think that's the same thing. I wouldn't mind if they were lesbians, but holding hands with friends seems strange to me.

O_o ...Thanks, but how does that make me epyk? XD I need mah personal space. o_o And I had already suspected that he had a crush on me for about a year. AND then he proceeded to try to hold my hand again a few moments later. x_x I tried not to be rude (and failed XD). But it just freaked me out to no end.

e_e Lesbians? WHAT? That makes NO SENSE. Just because you hold your friend's hand does NOT MEAN you're a homosexual. If anything, it means that you have a strong, trusting friendship. Not that you're in love with each other. -_- o_o Heck, I would hold my friend's hand more often if I didn't have this issue with personal space...and I'm CERTAINLY NOT a lesbian. XD

Example of my personal space issue:
Random person in line at the store: o_o *is, like, one foot away from me*
Me: x___x *starts getting twitchy* Um...would you mind backing up a little bit?
Random person: ._. Sure. *backs up*
Sis-in-law: I FOUND THE MILK! :D *holds up the milk we forgot*
Me: ^_^ Awesome! *hugs her*

I'm fine if the person's within my family OR if I'm the one getting close to them. If they get too close to me, and/or they're not in my family.....x_x I don't know why, but it makes me feel really nervous and twitchy. :^|