The Writer's Block - Your emotional venting thread. I'll explain.

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Originally Posted by AlgebraAddict (Post 530228)

It's just frustrating because Kidpub has been a really great supportive community in the past and now idk

it is. i agree. but acting out and making snide comments isn't going to help. if anything, it'll only raise tension and get people hurt. all you can do is try to lead them in the right direction and hope that it works.

o
oops
am i becoming suicidal again
FUCK
ok im gonna like idk go to bed and then talk to sam tomorrow i guess

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Originally Posted by AlgebraAddict (Post 530158)

I'm really beginning to hate Kidpub now. -_-

Call me a party pooper, but this wedding shit is just stupid now. It really is. Just. Stop. It's excessive and annoying.

And also half of you guys are ignorant little newbies who don't know how to avoid triggering or immature topics

tbh i agree with you this wedding stuff is like okaaay wat

i agree 100 you aren't alone ( i mean i kind of am an ignorant newbie... it's been two years )

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Originally Posted by AlgebraAddict (Post 530158)

I can really see what you mean. It was fun and all, but now they're making random wedding threads. And then they talk about shipping on every thread they get on. I was thinking like, "Can't we talk about other things?"
You're just going to have to ignore them and talk to the people you know and are friends with. But I can understand what you're saying.

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Originally Posted by L.S.Trendom (Post 530233)

o
oops
am i becoming suicidal again
FUCK
ok im gonna like idk go to bed and then talk to sam tomorrow i guess

Oh my gosh, what happened?! D: Talk to me, buddy!! (*glomps*) Hopefully you'll feel better in the morning. But, seriously, what's wrong? O_O

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Originally Posted by AlgebraAddict (Post 530158)

Indeed. Although I do ship, I do not involve weddings, and it is either
A) to tease people or
B) not actually about people that exist in real life
But A is only with people not over the Internet
I don't even ship Lyori that was just for equivalent exchange

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Originally Posted by AlgebraAddict (Post 530158)

I kind of have to...half... agree with you.
I always kind of thought the whole shipping two KPers was kind of cute, and the thing about weddings is that if you want nothing to do with them, don't have anything to do with them. It's your choice whether or not you want to click on a thread and read or take part in it.
I do agree with Lena in that you can't tell people to grow up and expect them to change, but I also agree with you. If they're triggering some of you guys, it really needs to stop. ...I hope I'm not someone you're talking about that does that... if I am, please tell me. I will do my best to stop doing it if I am doing it.
I would definitely not say I hate KP, I'm just getting a bit annoyed with it at times.

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Originally Posted by Lena (Post 530230)

hey
(*hugs*)
you always have someone, whether that be sam or your parents or your other friends, or, hell, even me. you have people that care, and i'm sure that you always will.
i can't make a guarantee that everything will work out with sam or your other friends, but i can say that if they walks out of your life, chances are they weren't meant to be there. and i don't think that's the case, from what i've heard. it's hard and sometimes we get hurt, but if someone says they're going to be there for you, you have to do your best to trust them.
and about your family, i'm sorry. but love isn't formed by blood, it's formed by connections between people. and if you ever really need it, i'm sure someone in your family would care enough to form those connections. and if not, screw them.

*hugs* thanks. just… idk i'm really scared of that. (mreh and it's especially possible considering i'm gonna travel a lot sooo)
the thing is, tbh, i don't even really want to form those connections. maybe with a few people—like my uncle or my cousin—but fuck i don't even know what family is supposed to be like

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Originally Posted by TheAshWolf (Post 530243)

Oh my gosh, what happened?! D: Talk to me, buddy!! (*glomps*) Hopefully you'll feel better in the morning. But, seriously, what's wrong? O_O

i don't even know, last night was just a really really bad emotional relapse.
mreh yeah i'm mostly feeling better now. But I feel like if I start thinking about anything again I'm gonna fall back down that whole.

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Originally Posted by AlgebraAddict (Post 530158)

Hey okay. Remember me?
Anyways, I agree with Lena. I guess I should apologize because I'm the one who kind of started up the whole Salice thing (although the wedding wasn't my idea) but they're just kids trying to have a bit of fun. It's playful, and the people involved think it's fun as well. We're not stepping over the line.

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Originally Posted by Lena (Post 530225)

(*hugs*) thank you, dearie. really. it means a lot

maybe it is excessive and maybe it is annoying but you can't expect everyone to be a grown up right away
kidpub/the internet in general has a way of getting to people and aging them up pretty quickly, but let them enjoy childhood as long as they can
and if you don't like something, why don't you walk away from it? if people here are annoying you, there is absolutely nothing stopping you from shutting off the computer and doing something else, because complaining about it is just going to make you seem immature as well.

it may not mean anything, but as long as people are having fun, let them enjoy it. like i said before, if you don't like something here, nothing at all is tying you.

from what i've observed in general, people on KP want to teach "newbies" how to act and who to become and it makes me really sad, guys. these kids came to write and to make friends, not to be targeted by people who think they're better than them because they act more maturely. i, personally, feel like a fish out of water around most new members, so i get it, but there's no need to be judgmental.

i'm sorry if any of that came off as offensive, but i see a lot of this irl and i'm sick of being too shy to say anything about it. if you want to complain, do it in a place where people you're complaining about can't see, because it hurts to be talked about publicly. if you're frustrated with something here, take a break, because your personal feelings are not anyone's fault.

Whoa. Lena, well phrased. Really well phrased.

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Originally Posted by AlgebraAddict (Post 530228)

It's just frustrating because Kidpub has been a really great supportive community in the past and now idk

I know there are a lot of newbies. I thought about leaving KP after a wave of newbies suddenly joined in January too, and like Lena said, I felt like a fish out of the water around them.
But hey I talked to one of my friends about it, and she said if I really love something then I shouldn't give it up. Don't give up on a rose because of its thorns.
Hey kidpub is still a beautiful place like a rose and the newbies or certain topics will seem like thorns to you but you know don't give up on us. Go to the ecc forum, actually. Maybe you'll feel better there. And talk to Rebecca. /nods/

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Originally Posted by pluzzle (Post 530237)

tbh i agree with you this wedding stuff is like okaaay wat

i agree 100 you aren't alone ( i mean i kind of am an ignorant newbie... it's been two years )

I guess. Let them have their fun. It'll fade in a week or so. The wedding probably won't even happen. c: That's what usually happens in my experience.

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Originally Posted by Elizabeth (Post 530238)

I didn't expect them to make a wedding thread. I really didn't. o.o

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Originally Posted by SilverMoon (Post 530247)

OH WAIT YOU REMEMBER LYORI AHAHA
so do i actually
and lydia and I ended up shipping Jydia anyways. xD