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Puckbrina159 09-07-2013 08:50 AM

I need some advice. I have no clue what to do. It's about the rant that I had yesterday up there ^. But I wasn't really clear as to what happened. The only person I've told is my brother. Okay so here goes...
So for the first couple weeks of school my grade has to sit with their homeroom kids at lunch. :mad: And I have two friends in my homeroom with me so I was really excited that I would get to sit with them. But they had friends in that class too. Friends that I was not too crazy about. But I sucked it up and thought, "this is gonna be fine. Just relax." but it's really not fine.
Yesterday they were making fun of two kids. Not to their faces or anything but just together at the table. It was a boy and a girl.
The girl is kind of over weight and that's why they make fun of her. One of the girls said, "I have a gym locker near hers. I had to stand near her while she changed." and the other girls were just disgusted and said they felt bad for her.
And the boy is my perfect specimen. They make fun of him because he wears pink and orange and as they say, "other girly colors". It's not against the law for boys to wear certain colors or, oh, I don't know, DRESS NICE. They called him a "girl dressed in a boy suit" (which can I say isn't even a good insult).
I don't know if I should tell someone because their not directly making fun of them and their not making fun of me. Or I could just let it go. Whatever I do, I would just cry if either one of the kids found out about this.
I don't know what to do.

LaurenM 09-07-2013 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Puckbrina159 (Post 493909)
I need some advice. I have no clue what to do. It's about the rant that I had yesterday up there ^. But I wasn't really clear as to what happened. The only person I've told is my brother. Okay so here goes...
So for the first couple weeks of school my grade has to sit with their homeroom kids at lunch. :mad: And I have two friends in my homeroom with me so I was really excited that I would get to sit with them. But they had friends in that class too. Friends that I was not too crazy about. But I sucked it up and thought, "this is gonna be fine. Just relax." but it's really not fine.
Yesterday they were making fun of two kids. Not to their faces or anything but just together at the table. It was a boy and a girl.
The girl is kind of over weight and that's why they make fun of her. One of the girls said, "I have a gym locker near hers. I had to stand near her while she changed." and the other girls were just disgusted and said they felt bad for her.
And the boy is my perfect specimen. They make fun of him because he wears pink and orange and as they say, "other girly colors". It's not against the law for boys to wear certain colors or, oh, I don't know, DRESS NICE. They called him a "girl dressed in a boy suit" (which can I say isn't even a good insult).
I don't know if I should tell someone because their not directly making fun of them and their not making fun of me. Or I could just let it go. Whatever I do, I would just cry if either one of the kids found out about this.
I don't know what to do.

If your friends are still pretty awesome aside from those factors, I suggest to tell them calmly and quietly, maybe through some kind of messaging. If you really hate them and don't know why you're still friends with them, you should probably just burst out on then.
I don't like orange or pink clothing, but that's not the point. I really think being a girl is better than being a boy on this aspect: they can still wear boyish clothes without much trouble. I wish it was the same for boys.

Puckbrina159 09-07-2013 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by LaurenM (Post 493912)
If your friends are still pretty awesome aside from those factors, I suggest to tell them calmly and quietly, maybe through some kind of messaging. If you really hate them and don't know why you're still friends with them, you should probably just burst out on then.
I don't like orange or pink clothing, but that's not the point. I really think being a girl is better than being a boy on this aspect: they can still wear boyish clothes without much trouble. I wish it was the same for boys.

Yeah I really don't want to be friends anymore but I'm kind of stuck sitting with them until we can sit where we want. After we can do that I'm hoping to just go and sit with my other friends and have no other issues.

I really wish that was too. There's no reason why it shouldn't be though and that pisses me off.

Arin 09-07-2013 10:17 AM

Two of my best friends on kp are kinda not friends right now and i dunno what to do

SilverMoon 09-07-2013 11:39 AM

Screw life

Homework is shit

I just want free time

Screw it

HeatherB 09-07-2013 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by SilverMoon (Post 493936)
Screw life

Homework is shit

I just want free time

Screw it

i feel that in my soul

TheAshWolf 09-07-2013 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Arin (Post 493917)
Two of my best friends on kp are kinda not friends right now and i dunno what to do

O__o Who are you talking about, might I ask...? Did something happen?

smartgal00 09-07-2013 05:23 PM

Fuck high school. It has to ruin so much.

TheAshWolf 09-07-2013 05:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Sandy (Post 493676)
Basically I'm worthless and have nothing to live for but a life of emptiness and burdens. There is no reason I can think of why I should continue my life. Regardless I am unable to kill myself of course, however I just don't believe there's any appealing factors to my life whatsoever. I have no friends that I can really connect with so I've just given up. I hate the life I have cut out for me and I hate myself. I'm ugly, stupid, and apathetic anyways, so I don't expect pity. I need a reason to live. I don't know how to make myself better and I feel stupid for feeling like this because literally no one I know has depression, or... whatever it is i have. Everyone around me loves their life and is doing just fine and dandy and knows they have something to live for. I feel like a mental case and maybe I should be. I don't deserve anything. There must be something wrong with me because this is the sixth year of suppressing how worthless I am and how much I don't want to live. At this point I don't even know if cutting would help me with the emptiness. I care about nothing in my life, and whatever I'm not apathetic about, I downright hate--and it's all directed at myself. Damn, even if I was at least mildly attractive I could look forward to the splendours of the life of a pretty person but I can't go even leave my room half the time and I know my appearance ranges from fucking disgusting to just stupid at best. What do I have to look forward to? A lifetime of this? Of denying the fact that I sincerely wish I had never been born?

OH MY GOSH SANDY I DIDN'T SEE THIS POST UNTIL JUST NOW I SWEAR i'm sorry i really didn't see it. ;__;

*deep breath* *thinks for a moment*

Sandy, I have to be honest with you. I really don't know what the right thing is to say to you right now. I really really don't. I don't even know if you're still at this low point two days later, but, I'm going to try my best to say something that might help you.

I think you're beautiful. I always have. Your eyes are bright and unique. Your hair looks nice--the style and the color. And you have an extremely bright smile. I know I haven't seen a whole bunch of pictures of you, but what I've seen, I can't help but think you're pretty. And you know what? I know you've heard this a million times before, but it's true. We are our own worst critics. It IS possible for you to not hate how you look. I no longer hate how I look. It's taken me 15 years, but that's how I see myself. I don't LIKE how I look, but I don't HATE it, either.

And, you know what, Sandy? It DOES get better. There is a wonderful future in store for us. And someone cares about you and loves you more than anyone else. I don't know what you think about God at this point in your life, but, this is the ONLY thing that TRULY comforts me and makes me feel like I'm worth anything at all. Leave religion out of it--what churches have done bad things, what other churches don't make sense, what evolutionists and anthropologists have to say. It makes sense to me that there is a God, and that he loves us. And he tells us directly that he can and will help us and give us something worth living for.

This is what I turn to when I feel worthless and I hate myself and I hate just about every last thing in my life and I kind of don't even feel like being pitied or even comforted. (That feeling comes and goes more often than I let on, you know.) This is what makes me feel better.

Jehovah is near to those that are broken at heart; And those who are crushed in spirit he saves. (Psalm 34:18)
'Do not be afraid, for I am with you. Do not gaze about, for I am your God. I will fortify you. I will really help you. I will really keep fast hold of you with my right hand of righteousness.’ (Isaiah 41:10)
"And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away." (Revelation 21:4)
"For this is the will of my Father, that everyone that beholds the Son and exercises faith in him should have everlasting life..." (John 6:40)

I don't know if that will help you feel better, Cass. But it's what makes me feel better, and it's the best thing I've ever found for not only myself, but for the majority of my family and friends, too.

camikat 09-07-2013 05:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Arin (Post 493917)
Two of my best friends on kp are kinda not friends right now and i dunno what to do

;-;
...who?


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