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soph-soph27 02-22-2013 08:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HeatherB (Post 427892)
*hugs back*
i'm getting freaked out
and
i need to fix things
but i can't
i don't know how
it really blows
being alone,
that is

I'm here. We all are.

HeatherB 02-22-2013 08:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by L.S.Trendom (Post 427896)
Why are you getting freaked out?
I think you can fix things. *hugs*
You're not alone. We're here for you.

oh god i might have to email you i don't even
i don't think so it's irreversible maybe
right
Quote:

Originally Posted by soph-soph27 (Post 427897)
I'm here. We all are.

thanks

02-22-2013 08:46 PM

Welp...

Since Mom wasn't home I decided to ask Dad if I could try out for the dance team next year....


...











He pretty much told me he didn't like cheerleaders or dancers and told me he wouldn't support me.


Geeeeee...thanks. And he also said Mom would say the same thing


So I went and cried in the shower for an hour and now I know what I'm going to say. This is how the convo in my head is:

Me: *walks into living room*
Dad: So are you mad at me now?
Me: Nope. Because I AM trying out for the dance team. I'm 110% dedicated and I'm not going down without a fight. Everytime I come out of my bedroom all sweaty, it's because I'm working out and trying to get fit for dance. When I go to down to the basement to run, it's so I can beat the 10 minute mile we have to do if we want to be on the team. Every free gym class I'm on either on the wall doing a backbend or on the mat doing front and back rolls. You sit and watch me do pirouette's and doubles in the living room every night, too. I don't want to get out of highschool and been like, "What if I had tried out for something new my highschool years?" And if I was a parent, I wouldn't want to be the one holding back their kid from doing what makes them truly happy.
Dad: *le stunned face*

Now I just need the courage to say this to his face. :(

cheezemziez 02-22-2013 08:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Caleigh (Post 427928)
Welp...

Since Mom wasn't home I decided to ask Dad if I could try out for the dance team next year....


...











He pretty much told me he didn't like cheerleaders or dancers and told me he wouldn't support me.


Geeeeee...thanks. And he also said Mom would say the same thing


So I went and cried in the shower for an hour and now I know what I'm going to say. This is how the convo in my head is:

Me: *walks into living room*
Dad: So are you mad at me now?
Me: Nope. Because I AM trying out for the dance team. I'm 110% dedicated and I'm not going down without a fight. Everytime I come out of my bedroom all sweaty, it's because I'm working out and trying to get fit for dance. When I go to down to the basement to run, it's so I can beat the 10 minute mile we have to do if we want to be on the team. Every free gym class I'm on either on the wall doing a backbend or on the mat doing front and back rolls. You sit and watch me do pirouette's and doubles in the living room every night, too. I don't want to get out of highschool and been like, "What if I had tried out for something new my highschool years?" And if I was a parent, I wouldn't want to be the one holding back their kid from doing what makes them truly happy.
Dad: *le stunned face*

Now I just need the courage to say this to his face. :(

You are right to try out for what you want. He's your parent, it's his role as your guardian to support you in your choices, whether it's sport or dance or whatever. If you've worked so hard for this, who is he to tell you not to?

CACrools 02-22-2013 08:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Caleigh (Post 427928)
Welp...

Since Mom wasn't home I decided to ask Dad if I could try out for the dance team next year....


...











He pretty much told me he didn't like cheerleaders or dancers and told me he wouldn't support me.


Geeeeee...thanks. And he also said Mom would say the same thing


So I went and cried in the shower for an hour and now I know what I'm going to say. This is how the convo in my head is:

Me: *walks into living room*
Dad: So are you mad at me now?
Me: Nope. Because I AM trying out for the dance team. I'm 110% dedicated and I'm not going down without a fight. Everytime I come out of my bedroom all sweaty, it's because I'm working out and trying to get fit for dance. When I go to down to the basement to run, it's so I can beat the 10 minute mile we have to do if we want to be on the team. Every free gym class I'm on either on the wall doing a backbend or on the mat doing front and back rolls. You sit and watch me do pirouette's and doubles in the living room every night, too. I don't want to get out of highschool and been like, "What if I had tried out for something new my highschool years?" And if I was a parent, I wouldn't want to be the one holding back their kid from doing what makes them truly happy.
Dad: *le stunned face*

Now I just need the courage to say this to his face. :(

Do it do it do it do it! I wish you complete luck, and I will give you my courage *hands courage, like the cowardly lion* :D

02-22-2013 09:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CACrools (Post 427947)
Do it do it do it do it! I wish you complete luck, and I will give you my courage *hands courage, like the cowardly lion* :D

That's ironic because that's the theme of the Open dance next year. They did an amazing Batman/Joker dance this year..and next year is the Wizard of Oz. :/

soph-soph27 02-22-2013 09:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Caleigh (Post 427928)
Welp...

Since Mom wasn't home I decided to ask Dad if I could try out for the dance team next year....


...











He pretty much told me he didn't like cheerleaders or dancers and told me he wouldn't support me.


Geeeeee...thanks. And he also said Mom would say the same thing


So I went and cried in the shower for an hour and now I know what I'm going to say. This is how the convo in my head is:

Me: *walks into living room*
Dad: So are you mad at me now?
Me: Nope. Because I AM trying out for the dance team. I'm 110% dedicated and I'm not going down without a fight. Everytime I come out of my bedroom all sweaty, it's because I'm working out and trying to get fit for dance. When I go to down to the basement to run, it's so I can beat the 10 minute mile we have to do if we want to be on the team. Every free gym class I'm on either on the wall doing a backbend or on the mat doing front and back rolls. You sit and watch me do pirouette's and doubles in the living room every night, too. I don't want to get out of highschool and been like, "What if I had tried out for something new my highschool years?" And if I was a parent, I wouldn't want to be the one holding back their kid from doing what makes them truly happy.
Dad: *le stunned face*

Now I just need the courage to say this to his face. :(

You can. Just dismiss everything else for a minute. Tell me please- what is the worst that could happen?

LaurenM 02-22-2013 10:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pluzzle (Post 427865)
I had a sleepover with Siobhan last night, haha
No I didn't? haha.

I see...
Quote:

Originally Posted by HeatherB (Post 427872)
i'm scaring myself
and
i don't like it

I scare myself sometimes, when I'm out of my definition of normal, which I don't think is very normal.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Caleigh (Post 427928)
Welp...

Since Mom wasn't home I decided to ask Dad if I could try out for the dance team next year....


...











He pretty much told me he didn't like cheerleaders or dancers and told me he wouldn't support me.


Geeeeee...thanks. And he also said Mom would say the same thing


So I went and cried in the shower for an hour and now I know what I'm going to say. This is how the convo in my head is:

Me: *walks into living room*
Dad: So are you mad at me now?
Me: Nope. Because I AM trying out for the dance team. I'm 110% dedicated and I'm not going down without a fight. Everytime I come out of my bedroom all sweaty, it's because I'm working out and trying to get fit for dance. When I go to down to the basement to run, it's so I can beat the 10 minute mile we have to do if we want to be on the team. Every free gym class I'm on either on the wall doing a backbend or on the mat doing front and back rolls. You sit and watch me do pirouette's and doubles in the living room every night, too. I don't want to get out of highschool and been like, "What if I had tried out for something new my highschool years?" And if I was a parent, I wouldn't want to be the one holding back their kid from doing what makes them truly happy.
Dad: *le stunned face*

Now I just need the courage to say this to his face. :(

Say it. If you don't have the courage, convey the message to him in another way.

Lily09 02-23-2013 03:02 AM

I just need something to hang onto.

rebecca 02-23-2013 04:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pluzzle (Post 428153)
i feel
pretty
asdfghjkl;' i don't know why eitherrr

Hi pluzzle. How is you?


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