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alemye10 12-20-2018 11:04 PM

This isnít a rant but for some reason I canít find a thread on just plain old Kidpub help advice lol so-
Do you guys know how to upload a pic to an album. Every time I do it, it says it failed or it was too big or something. I donít know what to do

AlgebraAddict 12-22-2018 03:33 AM

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Originally Posted by alemye10 (Post 601191)
This isnít a rant but for some reason I canít find a thread on just plain old Kidpub help advice lol so-
Do you guys know how to upload a pic to an album. Every time I do it, it says it failed or it was too big or something. I donít know what to do

Iím not sure if thereís a good way to do it, but hereís my strategy. When u try and upload a normal picture, itíll say itís too big and itíll say what the maximum dimensions are. Jot those down. Then, open or copy your picture into Microsoft Paint, and shrink it really, really small. From Paint, you can see what the dimensions of your mini copy are. Once theyíre smaller than the numbers KP suggested, upload the small copy.

alemye10 12-22-2018 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by AlgebraAddict (Post 601220)
Iím not sure if thereís a good way to do it, but hereís my strategy. When u try and upload a normal picture, itíll say itís too big and itíll say what the maximum dimensions are. Jot those down. Then, open or copy your picture into Microsoft Paint, and shrink it really, really small. From Paint, you can see what the dimensions of your mini copy are. Once theyíre smaller than the numbers KP suggested, upload the small copy.

Thanks! I figured out how to do it on a laptop with a shrink website. I guess thatís why it kept on failing

SilverMoon 12-22-2018 03:19 PM

Can my family not yell at each other thanks

Syafai 12-22-2018 11:37 PM

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Originally Posted by SilverMoon (Post 601230)
Can my family not yell at each other thanks

oof amen to that

Swallowtail 12-23-2018 12:53 PM

woah love how passive aggressive and also just straight up aggressive my family dynamic is!
also I just absolutely love having to explain all my new scars so so nice A+
my mom is annoyed that im not the same as I was this summer, shes pissed off that im still sad and that im acting "weird and different" woah hold on its almost like its only been three months since something super upsetting and traumatizing happened and its entirely unrealistic to expect me to be exactly the same as I was before so soon!
good thing its the holiday season and there's tons of alcohol!

AlgebraAddict 12-23-2018 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Swallowtail (Post 601248)
woah love how passive aggressive and also just straight up aggressive my family dynamic is!
also I just absolutely love having to explain all my new scars so so nice A+
my mom is annoyed that im not the same as I was this summer, shes pissed off that im still sad and that im acting "weird and different" woah hold on its almost like its only been three months since something super upsetting and traumatizing happened and its entirely unrealistic to expect me to be exactly the same as I was before so soon!
good thing its the holiday season and there's tons of alcohol!

That sounds miserable, good lord
Text me and tell me to call if u need someone to
Mysteriously make an urgent phone call that needs ur immediate attention (to escape social situations)

Werty 12-24-2018 10:09 AM

Do you ever get the feeling your friends don't actually like you? Like, they think you're immature, and in my case, pushy and bossy, and only hang out with you to keep you happy? Like, this has actually come out and happened before with my three year long best friend. She completed me. But I guess I pulled her too hard with my demanding chains of trust, and they snapped. I shouldn't, but sometimes I miss her. I'm about to start a new year without her. Last year(going into this one), we had a sleepover on New Years. This year, I'm doing it with another friend, but... I don't know. What if no one likes me? Do my chains of trust pull everyone? Am I just a chained weight to be pulled around? Do you guys think I'm (still) immature? What is wrong with me?

I feel used, by her. She used me to make me happy, so why do I feel used? I don't know! She held me up and let me down in the sheer weight of responsibility. I don't know. I know it is partially my fault, when I was younger I had a really bad "bossy" problem. But I'm really trying to fix that. I haven't talked much about this issue here because when it started, I talked a lot about it. Then she "came back". I believed her, but she just felt bad for me. Now she's left me broken in pieces again, shattered, this time without any form of contact (besides me contacting her once via my friend setting something up.)

Without her, I don't know what I am. Sometimes I feel like a shell. Sometimes I feel my friends are in the same boat as her, trying so hard to hold me up while trying not to get crushed. Is that it? Is that what I do to everyone? How do I stop? It's not my fault. I know it isn't. But... how on Earth will I survive broken like I am?

AlgebraAddict 12-24-2018 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Werty (Post 601260)
Do you ever get the feeling your friends don't actually like you? Like, they think you're immature, and in my case, pushy and bossy, and only hang out with you to keep you happy? Like, this has actually come out and happened before with my three year long best friend. She completed me. But I guess I pulled her too hard with my demanding chains of trust, and they snapped. I shouldn't, but sometimes I miss her. I'm about to start a new year without her. Last year(going into this one), we had a sleepover on New Years. This year, I'm doing it with another friend, but... I don't know. What if no one likes me? Do my chains of trust pull everyone? Am I just a chained weight to be pulled around? Do you guys think I'm (still) immature? What is wrong with me?

I feel used, by her. She used me to make me happy, so why do I feel used? I don't know! She held me up and let me down in the sheer weight of responsibility. I don't know. I know it is partially my fault, when I was younger I had a really bad "bossy" problem. But I'm really trying to fix that. I haven't talked much about this issue here because when it started, I talked a lot about it. Then she "came back". I believed her, but she just felt bad for me. Now she's left me broken in pieces again, shattered, this time without any form of contact (besides me contacting her once via my friend setting something up.)

Without her, I don't know what I am. Sometimes I feel like a shell. Sometimes I feel my friends are in the same boat as her, trying so hard to hold me up while trying not to get crushed. Is that it? Is that what I do to everyone? How do I stop? It's not my fault. I know it isn't. But... how on Earth will I survive broken like I am?

This is a rly tough issue I know from experience, but it all comes down to findin your own identity separate from your friends. YOU are special and unique and a real individual person, even without any particular friend. Think about what makes you YOU.

Also, this can be hard to hear, but the people you are friends with now wonít be your closest friends for your entire life. You will grow and mature and so will your friends, and youíll have some new friends that will understand a little better someday.

Werty 12-24-2018 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by AlgebraAddict (Post 601268)
This is a rly tough issue I know from experience, but it all comes down to findin your own identity separate from your friends. YOU are special and unique and a real individual person, even without any particular friend. Think about what makes you YOU.

Also, this can be hard to hear, but the people you are friends with now wonít be your closest friends for your entire life. You will grow and mature and so will your friends, and youíll have some new friends that will understand a little better someday.

The thing is, though, I know deep down I'm being paranoid. And??? I can't stop?? Yeahhhhhhh um. I just feel like crap without her sometimes.


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