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AlgebraAddict 11-28-2016 03:18 AM

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Originally Posted by maxi (Post 591793)
Guys help please big help super big thx would be very much appreciated

What do u need friend??

maxi 11-28-2016 04:05 AM

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Originally Posted by AlgebraAddict (Post 591794)
What do u need friend??

So my crush/good friend is annoyed because I told HIS best friend to tell him that I wanted to talk to him and now neither of them will talk to me. Also crush/good friend is annoyed because I keep asking him if he wants to hang out and I don't know what to do.

otaku 11-28-2016 07:16 AM

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Originally Posted by maxi (Post 591796)
So my crush/good friend is annoyed because I told HIS best friend to tell him that I wanted to talk to him and now neither of them will talk to me. Also crush/good friend is annoyed because I keep asking him if he wants to hang out and I don't know what to do.

Imo that's a pretty dick move on their part.
Maybe let them have a couple days to be dicks and ask hey I don't really understand why you wouldn't talk/got mad, is there anything I can do to, idk, make it better/not happen again?
I'm not the best at advice giving though, so maybe take it with a grain of salt idk.
Personally I think it's pretty not chill of them to do that. /because I'm the clingy one that's gonna get angry if you're a dick because I don't tolerate that shit if you're my friend. Automatic not talking to them/


Update: friend with much more experience and who went to a relationship seminar at the GSA conference we attended says to dump that trash because if he's acting that way you don't need him in your life. "That's a super shitty thing to do and not how "good" friends act"

maxi 11-28-2016 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by otaku (Post 591797)
Imo that's a pretty dick move on their part.
Maybe let them have a couple days to be dicks and ask hey I don't really understand why you wouldn't talk/got mad, is there anything I can do to, idk, make it better/not happen again?
I'm not the best at advice giving though, so maybe take it with a grain of salt idk.
Personally I think it's pretty not chill of them to do that. /because I'm the clingy one that's gonna get angry if you're a dick because I don't tolerate that shit if you're my friend. Automatic not talking to them/


Update: friend with much more experience and who went to a relationship seminar at the GSA conference we attended says to dump that trash because if he's acting that way you don't need him in your life. "That's a super shitty thing to do and not how "good" friends act"

I'm just going to talk to him. He gets like this—very temperamental in situations like this, and he gets cranky easily.

otaku 11-28-2016 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by maxi (Post 591809)
I'm just going to talk to him. He gets like this—very temperamental in situations like this, and he gets cranky easily.

All righty then

otaku 11-28-2016 06:47 PM

i just want to fucking know. I feel like crying because I think I'm not good enough and my friend already got accepted because she's obviously better than me and I was supposed to have heard by now and it's so much fucking stress and anxiety not knowing if I'm good enough because if I can't get in here I can't get into any of my other colleges obviously and I'm just going to hang my head all the way to Randolph because I could only fucking get into my safety school and I don't even know a way to ask if there's a problem because every way I try to word it sounds bitchy and childish I don't know what do do anymore
End rant
Feeling low

Graystorm 11-29-2016 12:45 AM

Nonononononono here they come again ripping apart my gut and tearing my lungs into pieces all I want to do is cut

I just want to cut the world away and paint the walls red with my blood

I want to see my mom again

I want to make her a homemade Christmas present like I used to

I want to go sledding like we used to when my mom and dad were still together and my mom didn't drink and I was homeshooled and I rode once every other week and mom had an endless amount of patience when we were being stupid kids

No

I don't even care if that her

I just want her

Even if she drinks to much and destroys her liver even if she yells and screams when we come back from a weekend with dad and the sinks is full of dishes that we need to do even if she mocks says that dad's girlfriend is our new step mommy and that we didn't need her anymore even if she pushed us and made us do all of the chores and cook dinner even if she crashes her truck ten more times even if she goes to jail again for being too drunk at a concert

I don't care

I just want my mom back

And I'm willing to die to get her back

Frostblaze 11-29-2016 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Graystorm (Post 591938)
Nonononononono here they come again ripping apart my gut and tearing my lungs into pieces all I want to do is cut

I just want to cut the world away and paint the walls red with my blood

I want to see my mom again

I want to make her a homemade Christmas present like I used to

I want to go sledding like we used to when my mom and dad were still together and my mom didn't drink and I was homeshooled and I rode once every other week and mom had an endless amount of patience when we were being stupid kids

No

I don't even care if that her

I just want her

Even if she drinks to much and destroys her liver even if she yells and screams when we come back from a weekend with dad and the sinks is full of dishes that we need to do even if she mocks says that dad's girlfriend is our new step mommy and that we didn't need her anymore even if she pushed us and made us do all of the chores and cook dinner even if she crashes her truck ten more times even if she goes to jail again for being too drunk at a concert

I don't care

I just want my mom back

And I'm willing to die to get her back

hey, listen. what would your mom want? whether she was drunk or sober or with your dad or not with him, she would want you alive. she would want you safe. it's not your time to see her yet. it's not your time to die, and she would agree with me. i know you miss her. i miss my friend's mom, too. i can't imagine what you're going through. i know it's hard, but it will get easier. some days it'll hurt more than others, but it'll get easier. please stay strong. please stay alive for me, for your mom, for your family.

Graystorm 11-29-2016 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Frostblaze (Post 591951)
hey, listen. what would your mom want? whether she was drunk or sober or with your dad or not with him, she would want you alive. she would want you safe. it's not your time to see her yet. it's not your time to die, and she would agree with me. i know you miss her. i miss my friend's mom, too. i can't imagine what you're going through. i know it's hard, but it will get easier. some days it'll hurt more than others, but it'll get easier. please stay strong. please stay alive for me, for your mom, for your family.

ill always value your life over mine

july3girl 11-30-2016 12:22 AM

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Originally Posted by otaku (Post 591817)
i just want to fucking know. I feel like crying because I think I'm not good enough and my friend already got accepted because she's obviously better than me and I was supposed to have heard by now and it's so much fucking stress and anxiety not knowing if I'm good enough because if I can't get in here I can't get into any of my other colleges obviously and I'm just going to hang my head all the way to Randolph because I could only fucking get into my safety school and I don't even know a way to ask if there's a problem because every way I try to word it sounds bitchy and childish I don't know what do do anymore
End rant
Feeling low

hey it's ok. i kinda understand. we have a process similar to the college process for high school in chicago, where you have to take a bunch of tests and apply and write essays to get into a good school. there are only like 5 good, special schools and i think most of the kids in the city apply.

my teachers say that no matter what school you get into, even if it's your 3rd or 5th or 6th or 10th or 15th, it's the school you were meant to go to. it's the school that is right for you.

i hope you know soon.


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