its no trouble at all!! thanks for informing me (:

that blog is my lifesource

i don't think anyone gets discriminated against because they're heterosexual. that seems a lot to me like reverse racism, which doesn't exist--people take offense to the white girl jokes and white people jokes, yet no one gets killed or shot or harassed due to being white, and no one gets exterminated en masse for being white.

you're right, no one should be discriminated against.
but there is a much more urgent problem than white cishet discrimination.

ya like no one needs to come out as heterosexual. it's assumed that all people are cisgendered heterosexual. i agree with eli

christ, i'm queer and i have internalized queerphobia. most of the time i end up hating myself and wishing i was cishet and knowing that my life would be easier if i could just be cishet, and i'm constantly trying to "make myself cishet" and questioning myself and thinking i'm a freak and i'm not sure of anything haha kill me pls

i really want to cut my hair like, i don't even identify as the female gender anymore at this point and i've already picked out a name that i love if i end up identifying as male once this wave of confusion passes and i'm more certain of my gender identity.
i already can't stand wearing my feminine clothes like even if it's pajamas like i just can't do it anymore. i can't even imagine myself wearing a dress at my own wedding like?????????? something is happening 2 me and i don't know what

heteronormativity is honestly so toxic
i remember when i was in the catholic school board, we were taught that homosexuality is "not condoned" and i remember reading the one page that our sex ed book had on homosexuality and it was like "2% of people are homosexual"

i haven't forgotten that statistic even to this day
2%

2% of people


like

2%

i've been throwing around possible name changes... such as:
sonic
phil (as in doctor phil)
obama
BroDude
toastmaster
snape


same
i know i'm not genderfluid, but i'm perpetually caught between male, nonbinary, and then this part of me keeps trying to shove me back into being female since i'm dfab but then i go out irl and i'm just like .. ,.. nah

like when i have my hair down i can't even see myself as female in the mirror like normally it's just like "person with long hair" or "guy with long hair" but at this point i'm uncomfortable with both male and female pronouns so it's like ... . wat. .
i hate how we're given so many expectations based on what's between our legs like why

thanks for asking though :D
it'd be kinda nice to be cishet because its expected and dsjifjadj

toastmaster and obama are equals for me how about toastmaster as your first name then obama???

two percent
two
wow

i have short hair and i think that you should go for it seriously if that's what you want
do it
fOLLOW YOUR DREAMS
idek I don't MIND it but if I had a choice to see it or not i wouldn't idek

my problem with genderbending is that in nsfw genderbent fanart/fanfic, they show that their genitals have been changed and its like nO???
and then my overall problem with genderbending in fanart is that the body type is the same as their sex and you never see girls genderbent as guys dressing in feminine clothes and boobs or guys to girls in masculine clothes like WOW way to reinforce the idea that sex=gender and that gender expression has to be the same as gender identity
better explained:http://submarinedreams.tumblr.com/post/65444745490

and sandy, or really anyone, if anyone tells you that youre being oversensitive over something that affects you dont listen to them because where would we be if we didnt question things.

Well, there actually have been some hate crimes that have occurred and the ones who committed it have openly said it was "because the victim was white", but I do see your point and agree with it like 99%. And I'm not really offended by white girl jokes, just irritated by them when they get to be too much.

Also I support you going by Snape one thousand percent

I just think it's because most of those characters are cis, so people's logic is probably that if they're cis as the gender they are now, they'd be cis while genderbent too. Does that makes sense???? I really hope that made sense...

thanks man


i'm getting real sick of relatives calling me little girl
also this one relative has this nickname for me and it's "maria" i literally have no idea where he got it from because my birthname is cassandra like wh at
i just get this weird feeling when he calls me maria it's like when a cat's hair goes up and im just like y u do this

god my gender identity keeps fluctuating/flickering (if that makes sense idk) throughout the day and it's like
can u not
also my mom finally agreed to let me get short hair B) she says she doesn't want me to get it like p!nk tho and im just like o ok

I know, but I'm sure my not identifying as anything doesn't feel quite right for me. But I'm honestly not sure what would be better, so I just give up.

Genderbends are usually just their theme colours dressing style converted to feminine/masculine...Just the opposite of their normal style. And yeah...a lot of chAracters are usually cis. I WOULD like to see a gender bent character in the opposite sex version with the same sex clothing
True

That's my problem though? The characters when genderbent, are also the opposite sex. That feeds into the idea that sex=gender. And also that gender=gender expression.