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Old 02-03-2020, 09:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Swallowtail View Post
you could also tell her that while youíre happy being a comfort person for her you canít be a vent person for her. tell her that when sheís sad she can hang out with you and you can watch terrible shows or cook or just keep each other company, but you donít always want her to tell you exactly whatís wrong. i have a lot of friends who have issues with self harm, and generally the arrangement i have with them is if they are having a hard time and want to hurt themselves they can always come sit in my room and iíll make them tea and we can watch the office or brooklyn 99 as i do my homework. itís nice to have someone who understands that youíre sad and will support you through it, but you can 100% do that without exhausting yourself
we can't really go over to see each other though-- we both still live at home and nowhere near each other.

i'll say something else later i have to go nOW
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