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[AlgebraAddict]

Originally Posted by FrostBittenKitten

Hey does anyone have any advice about figuring out your sexual/romantic orientation (mostly romantic tbh)? I’m like 90% sure I am demisexual but the romantic orientation is trickier. Like I generally am into dudes but recently I think I’ve also had a crush or two on a girl? I’m not sure I rly want any kind of romantic partner or anything for a while but I rly don’t care that much If in the future I have a boyfriend or girlfriend honestly. I tried to talk abt me possibly liking girls to my mom and she said I was confused whereas my bi friend acted super excited by it and both ways I felt a little pressured. I took a couple of quizzes and I generally get bi or ace (I am a nerd lol). Anyway if anyone has gone through something similar would you be willing to help a girl out?

Originally Posted by Syafai

hMMM yOU'RE PROBABLY dEMI-BI

10/10 sy, that's what I was gonna say!!

[SilverMoon]

my ass still don't know anything beyond I'm someplace on the asexual spectrum and I'm queer

and sexually deviant lol
not sure if it's ok to talk about this, but like how sadomasochism and other such sexual deviancy is classified as a mental illness and I have philosophical discussions with this one teacher who's like Hella Cool but also brings that stuff up
(well all that means is I'm NEURODIVERGENT not mentally ill stfuuu normal is fake humans are inherently unhealthy)
And I'm like..... Lol ok..... Everyone can keep telling me that everything about my personality and even sexual interests are wrong..... That's fine.


Also, if this makes sense at all, I'm a sex-positive fluctuating-sex-repulsed asexual lollll
And then I might be asexual-spectrum and not straight-up ace but I wouldn't know because I don't think I've been sexually attracted to anyone before despite being somewhat interested in sex as a concept (even though it's sometimes a repulsive trigger).


Also love is fake
Romance is dead
Don't let some date
Get to your head

Lol bye

[AlgebraAddict]

Originally Posted by SilverMoon

my ass still don't know anything beyond I'm someplace on the asexual spectrum and I'm queer

and sexually deviant lol
not sure if it's ok to talk about this, but like how sadomasochism and other such sexual deviancy is classified as a mental illness and I have philosophical discussions with this one teacher who's like Hella Cool but also brings that stuff up
(well all that means is I'm NEURODIVERGENT not mentally ill stfuuu normal is fake humans are inherently unhealthy)
And I'm like..... Lol ok..... Everyone can keep telling me that everything about my personality and even sexual interests are wrong..... That's fine.


Also, if this makes sense at all, I'm a sex-positive fluctuating-sex-repulsed asexual lollll
And then I might be asexual-spectrum and not straight-up ace but I wouldn't know because I don't think I've been sexually attracted to anyone before despite being somewhat interested in sex as a concept (even though it's sometimes a repulsive trigger).


Also love is fake
Romance is dead
Don't let some date
Get to your head

Lol bye

that sounds like a real tangle my friend, i don't have much advice hang in there and feel free to be as asexual and sex-repulsed and/or wildly kinky as you wanna.

[AlgebraAddict]

i saw a slightly terfy pin on my pinterest, and i went and blocked the chick who pinned it, and i think the other terfs are retaliating because thats literally all i see on my dashboard and i want to die!

[strawberry]

hello im a big gay

[AlgebraAddict]

hey so I have a friend who's transitioning as a trans girl and she's great but also literally the awkwardest ever. she's out to like three people and I'm the only one who's fully ok with it. anyway she could rly use some support. no pressure or anything but if any of y'all queers were open to getting in a group chat or whatever, y'all could hit me up through email or contact tab. :0

Originally Posted by algebraaddict

hey So I Have A Friend Who's Transitioning As A Trans Girl And She's Great But Also Literally The Awkwardest Ever. She's Out To Like Three People And I'm The Only One Who's Fully Ok With It. Anyway She Could Rly Use Some Support. No Pressure Or Anything But If Any Of Y'all Queers Were Open To Getting In A Group Chat Or Whatever, Y'all Could Hit Me Up Through Email Or Contact Tab. :0

woah dude that's amazing!!!

i can't email or anything but please tell her i said congrats!! that's so amazing akjfnkasjdnka

[Zelda]

been meaning to ask, would wearing a binder for style purposes be offensive? I identify as a cis female, but sometimes i wanna put my boobs away, yanno? Like, they're kind of an inconvenience, and i don't like the idea that other people could be sexualizing them, it makes me uncomfortable. Plus being 'flatter' would suit my personal style more. But, at the same time, I don't want to be disrespectful to people who use binders seriously. I won't get one if I know it will be a problem. So, any opinions from my trans buds up in here? Is this a yay or a nay?

[Lily09]

Originally Posted by Zelda

been meaning to ask, would wearing a binder for style purposes be offensive? I identify as a cis female, but sometimes i wanna put my boobs away, yanno? Like, they're kind of an inconvenience, and i don't like the idea that other people could be sexualizing them, it makes me uncomfortable. Plus being 'flatter' would suit my personal style more. But, at the same time, I don't want to be disrespectful to people who use binders seriously. I won't get one if I know it will be a problem. So, any opinions from my trans buds up in here? Is this a yay or a nay?

ur fine. cosplayers use binders all the time, cis guys use binders as well sometimes.

[Zelda]

Originally Posted by Lily09

ur fine. cosplayers use binders all the time, cis guys use binders as well sometimes.

alright, thank u my dude, that's v helpful c: