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mabes · #**8861** 12-19-2018, 10:55 AM

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Originally Posted by AlgebraAddict

Haha I’m not brave I’m just nihilistic (fuck it) and impulsive (guess I’ll do it). And thank u it was my first real love and there was a lot of crying it was pretty gr8.

OKAY BUT AS FOR U

life tip: If he says flirty stuff to all girls, that’s him being either universally flirty or universally oblivious. If it seems like it’s just with you, then he’s probably flirting.

Also maybe you should lay ur head on his shoulder sometime. Like just doze off on a bus ride or something. Start making more innocent physical contact because it’s a good kind of flirting and if he likes u he will start doing it back. 10/10

can i just say i appreciate you so much?? like thank u for talking to me about this ahaha

yes i've been working on becoming more comfortable with physical contact in general, but especially with him. i make a point to sit next to him and at least have our arms be touching lol. it probably sounds like nothing but it's a step for me
we were sitting next to each other watching a movie and i was this close to laying my head on his shoulder but i chickened out haha

AlgebraAddict · #**8862** 12-22-2018, 02:26 AM

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Originally Posted by mabes

can i just say i appreciate you so much?? like thank u for talking to me about this ahaha

yes i've been working on becoming more comfortable with physical contact in general, but especially with him. i make a point to sit next to him and at least have our arms be touching lol. it probably sounds like nothing but it's a step for me
we were sitting next to each other watching a movie and i was this close to laying my head on his shoulder but i chickened out haha

Ok the arm touch is not nothing, it is Top Notch Romance tbh. It’s up there with “goodnight <3” texts. Actually do y’all text?? Because I need details and screenshots ASAP this is serious. Hmu on my ig at @punk_nap

And girl of course!!! I am always out here for the fam. Babes bond over this stuff, like in 2015 Sravani (strawberry on KP) coached me w my crush on the EVT and this summer she stayed for a weekend at my house. This is the real deal, honey.

AlgebraAddict · #**8863** 12-22-2018, 02:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Werty

The older members that don't post much come on this thread so I live here now.

yeah, we lost the ability to be either random or emo back in 2016, so that eliminates most other threads. Fortunately, being hopelessly in love is the lifetime curse of writers, so we still out here.

HannahChen2009 · #**8864** 12-30-2018, 01:04 AM

I don't have a crush cause I legit have a bf atm, but he's wonderful and I'm happy <3

HannahChen2009 · #**8865** 12-30-2018, 01:38 AM

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Originally Posted by HannahChen2009

I'm too tired to appreciate and/or complain about my bf
These things usually go hand in hand.

hey so the last time I posted on this thread (that was an actual post about my ex-boyfriend and not a reply to someone else's) I was in a relationship that was slowly turning toxic and one-sided (I was essentially ghosted for at least three months towards the end of 2016, but he gave me enough leverage to hope and cling onto that hope) and that led to a lot of tears and self-doubt and me becoming closed off and negative towards everyone.
there was a long time where I was in denial and refused to believe that he didn't love me anymore (this was my first relationship, and it meant a lot to me either way), and it also took an amount of time to truly get over him (admittedly this overlapped with my time with my current boyfriend)
he was my first love, and I was super convinced we were going to last till marriage because not only did I know we were different, the adults around us could tell too, and constantly told me how we were the most special couple they'd come across while teaching, and it really was, while it lasted, something else.
however, as hard as getting over him was, and even though it took a long time to heal, I'm super super thankful for my current boyfriend. not only did he pull me out of my misery, he also makes me laugh like no one else does, and he showed me a gentleness that I had been searching for but couldn't find in my ex. I don't want to thank my ex for hurting me, or else I wouldn't have found my current boyfriend, blah blah blah- there were definitely better ways to break up with me if he didn't love me anymore instead of ghosting me for three months and ignoring me in my desperate state to "get him back", but I am infinitely thankful for my current boyfriend and everything he has done for me, including helping me through the worst of my depression, and being with me through the good times and the bad.
whatever happened happened, and to look back on this two years later, I can say I'm completely over my ex.
I'm happy now, and in love. Thank you,

Werty · #**8866** 12-30-2018, 02:14 PM

Hahahahahgahgahnahgahgahxdoedjvorkejfirldofoemdjfj fjr someone likes me and I don't like him back how fun

AlgebraAddict · #**8867** 12-30-2018, 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by HannahChen2009

hey so the last time I posted on this thread (that was an actual post about my ex-boyfriend and not a reply to someone else's) I was in a relationship that was slowly turning toxic and one-sided (I was essentially ghosted for at least three months towards the end of 2016, but he gave me enough leverage to hope and cling onto that hope) and that led to a lot of tears and self-doubt and me becoming closed off and negative towards everyone.
there was a long time where I was in denial and refused to believe that he didn't love me anymore (this was my first relationship, and it meant a lot to me either way), and it also took an amount of time to truly get over him (admittedly this overlapped with my time with my current boyfriend)
he was my first love, and I was super convinced we were going to last till marriage because not only did I know we were different, the adults around us could tell too, and constantly told me how we were the most special couple they'd come across while teaching, and it really was, while it lasted, something else.
however, as hard as getting over him was, and even though it took a long time to heal, I'm super super thankful for my current boyfriend. not only did he pull me out of my misery, he also makes me laugh like no one else does, and he showed me a gentleness that I had been searching for but couldn't find in my ex. I don't want to thank my ex for hurting me, or else I wouldn't have found my current boyfriend, blah blah blah- there were definitely better ways to break up with me if he didn't love me anymore instead of ghosting me for three months and ignoring me in my desperate state to "get him back", but I am infinitely thankful for my current boyfriend and everything he has done for me, including helping me through the worst of my depression, and being with me through the good times and the bad.
whatever happened happened, and to look back on this two years later, I can say I'm completely over my ex.
I'm happy now, and in love. Thank you,

I’m screaming this is beautoful