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[Lily09]

Originally Posted by HeatherB

to paraphrase my favorite jane lynch quote, "sexuality isn't all black and white. sometimes it's gray and swims"

i know fo'sho' that, for all the innuendos and jokes i make about my sex life, i will never be comfortable having sex ever with any gender. it's too weird and frankly, gross. but i know that i like guys and gals and i'm definitely bi (and i came out yesterday to one of my bffs while i was sitting on a trapeze so there's that. progress) even though i might have a tiny preference for guys (just sexually i guess) over girls. i have no problem kissing/making out with/anything above the southern region of the body with either of them (;

for me its like i identify as a panromantic homosexual but i wouldnt do anything sexual with a person who has a dick (regardless of gender) i dont know how to label that or if i should so im just labeling it with what i feel comfortable which is panromantic homosexual, even if the last part isnt accurate bc i would be okay with a trans male.

[MaggieMay]

(oh yeah you look very fab in your Skype profile pic lily c

I really don't feel very attracted to the majority of guys (at my school anyway) and some of the girls and I would date/kiss either gender as long as I admired them for who they were instead of only sexually (but both would be nice)
and (because I'm so clean) I wouldn't do the thing with someone unless I trusted them a lot

[L.S.Trendom]

Originally Posted by MaggieMay

do the thing

haha i like how you said 'do the thing' and like half the people on this thread don't shy away from swearing at all

but anyways i was distracted
gooo gsrm people
u guys are fab

not sure what i am (idek = best label ever) but if I had to pick something, I'd go with probably… panromantic with a lean toward heteroromantic and heteroflexible sexually
or just heteroflexible bc that's much shorter
and maybeeee genderfluid but mostly i'm just confused and like "whatever man ill find out eventually"

[Lily09]

Originally Posted by MaggieMay

(oh yeah you look very fab in your Skype profile pic lily c

aww thank you :3 im actually really pleased with how that picture because i didn't turn out looking like an emo boy (which is nice on some days but not always) i still looked like a boy, instead of a girl(like i do some days)!!

[LaurenM]

Yes lily your haircut is awesome :33
Yo. I have no idea what my sexuality is, probably homosexual/pansexual/homosexual pan-romantic

[Lily09]

thank lorin

this is new i feel agendered today
usually im a male but wow
ok

[MaggieMay]

Originally Posted by Lily09

thank lorin

this is new i feel agendered today
usually im a male but wow
ok

(sorry if this is nosy or anything you don't have to answer I was just wondering)
what exactly does it feel like to be genderfluid/have no gender at all??? I've always been kind of fascinated by it, if you know what I mean

[Lily09]

Originally Posted by MaggieMay

(sorry if this is nosy or anything you don't have to answer I was just wondering)
what exactly does it feel like to be genderfluid/have no gender at all??? I've always been kind of fascinated by it, if you know what I mean

its okay!!
basically genderfluidity is when you are a male some days/weeks/months(idk about years maybe), a female other days/weeks/months, and sometimes both!! and sometimes you dont feel like youre any at all
agendered/nongendered is just when you don't feel like you are anything you just are?? kind of?? its hard to explain for agendered/nongendered because i dont have much experience with it

for me, on most days i am a male, but sometimes im a female. some days i just feel both.

[MaggieMay]

thanks for putting it into further explanation cc: helps a lot

[AlgebraAddict]

Originally Posted by Lily09

its okay!!
basically genderfluidity is when you are a male some days/weeks/months(idk about years maybe), a female other days/weeks/months, and sometimes both!! and sometimes you dont feel like youre any at all
agendered/nongendered is just when you don't feel like you are anything you just are?? kind of?? its hard to explain for agendered/nongendered because i dont have much experience with it

for me, on most days i am a male, but sometimes im a female. some days i just feel both.

Do I call you he or she, out of curiosity? I try to call you non gendered pronouns or by your name, but sometimes it'd be easier to call you he or she. Do you have a preference?