(idk if this exists already but) friendships and all the problems in between

[Alaska]

basically a vent and advice page for all the sucky things friendships bring, i know for a fact that they can really bring you down so i thought having thread specifically on that could be useful??

[mysterygirl]

This. Is. Me. I make friends easily but lately it seems I "ruin" my best friend friendships (coughmycrush,nick,Naomi,cough)

[Frostblaze]

Every time I open my mouth around my friends, I always get flamed.
Like really
Really
It's just because I'm a Christian
I thought they were better than that but nuh

[meerkat]

Idk lately I haven't had friend problems since this clingy ex-friend of mine moved far far away. Sure, I'm in the outcast band kids group or whatever, and the rest of the school seems to think we're inferior, but I haven't fought with these girls since the trashcan decided to go away forever.

[Alaska]

Originally Posted by meerkat

Idk lately I haven't had friend problems since this clingy ex-friend of mine moved far far away. Sure, I'm in the outcast band kids group or whatever, and the rest of the school seems to think we're inferior, but I haven't fought with these girls since the trashcan decided to go away forever.

good you don't have that person as an additional on your list of worries anymore ((:

[Alaska]

Originally Posted by mysterygirl

This. Is. Me. I make friends easily but lately it seems I "ruin" my best friend friendships (coughmycrush,nick,Naomi,cough)

how do you "ruin" them??

[Alaska]

Originally Posted by Frostblaze

Every time I open my mouth around my friends, I always get flamed.
Like really
Really
It's just because I'm a Christian
I thought they were better than that but nuh

you shouldn't have to put up with that. if they're making you feel negatively, they're obviously not worth your time, and certainly not good friends

[meerkat]

Originally Posted by Alaska

good you don't have that person as an additional on your list of worries anymore ((:

Yeah tbh if people knew when to take the trash out without any drama then friend troubles would basically not exist at all...

[Alaska]

Originally Posted by meerkat

Yeah tbh if people knew when to take the trash out without any drama then friend troubles would basically not exist at all...

some people just need the attention i guess

[meerkat]

Originally Posted by Alaska

some people just need the attention i guess

And all my current friendships are actually based on working or music or something (yeah they're mostly from this job I used to have) and my main rule is if they don't help you follow your passions, dump them. Since I started putting my needs first I've been feeling so much better about friendships.