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[MaggieMay]

Originally Posted by Lily09

so so so whats up with your life any crushes or anything do tell

Well um
I actually have 3
Two are on guys (one of which has been there for like three years and the other who I just started liking for no reason other than I was bored and he's awesome)
One of them is on my best friend (who's a girl). She knows about it and doesn't really care (but she's straight) and she's also sleeping over tonight so woo \o/
And uh that's it
I would go more in-depth but I'm kinda lazy, so maybe later

[LaurenM]

Originally Posted by EmmaR

Same. Like, I don't FEEL like a girl, but I don't feel awkward being a girl, so I just kind of assume that I'm cisgendered.

Exactly!

Originally Posted by WolfWriter

Am I the only one who's like 100% gay without any attraction toward the opposite gender? Period?

I'm not actually that sure.

Originally Posted by WolfWriter

LAST POST BUT

omg

So I met this girl on Tumblr, because I stumbled upon her blog and was like, "She's blonde but she's cute, eh, might as well see how she's doing." It was Thanksgiving, which is significant because each holiday I've met someone on Tumblr I had a crush on, no matter how briefly. Like I met my ex on Valentine's Day. That's a long story. But this new girl is named Emma and she's basically the best person I can imagine. She's soooo beautiful and adventurous and athletic but she isn't a jock. She's just good at what she needs to be. Usually I go for the intellectual types, but I can't stop comparing them all to my ex, Amy, who was utterly brilliant. Really really really intelligent. Emma isn't as good in academic classes, but she's a university student (two years older than me, barely) studying adventure media, so she does film editing and advertisements for these outdoorsy companies.
And she's funny and great and ugh, has perfect music taste and is musical and just overall so so so sweet.
I've never been so happy around a person. And we Skyped last Sunday, which is huge because I've only ever called a person with Skype on audio, not video.

The issue?

She lives 3500 miles away. In Scotland.

The only good thing is the accent, which makes me swooooooon, like oh my goodness. Her voice is like raw sex appeal, and she spent her childhood summers in the south of France, so something she slips into French and apologizes and I just answer her in French and we laugh and wow. Wow. She's just wow.

Ermahgerd that's so sweet!

Originally Posted by Lily09

i only started getting used to calling Emily my gf towards the end of the relationship.
its so weird because if you were around when i started talking about emily on here (since 2012) you would think that we would be really great together!! but no it was really awkward because she's at a different school and she was just like "idk whatever you want!!" so there wasn't a lot of communication.

Oh so you're talking about Emily!

[rebecca]

I think of myself as having no gender. I'm so rubbish at being a girl it's hilarious.

[LaurenM]

Originally Posted by rebecca

I think of myself as having no gender. I'm so rubbish at being a girl it's hilarious.

^ probably me too.
Like, I might go crazy over clothes, but fandom clothes. I feel extremely self-conscious in the clothes most girls wear, and I won't mind wearing boys' clothes.
Okay, but I'm probably cisgender.

[rebecca]

I'm not fluent in this language, so please, enlighten me as to what cisgender is.

[LaurenM]

Cisgender's basically the opposite of transgender

[rebecca]

Does androgynous count as a gender identity?

[WolfWriter]

Originally Posted by rebecca

Does androgynous count as a gender identity?

I would say gender expression.

[Lily09]

Originally Posted by WolfWriter

How did you meet? And I don't like when people have no opinion and ask me to make a lot of decisions. Kind of freaks me out. The thing with distance is there will never be a lack of communication. It's all you have.

sixth grade, we were best friends but then i developed a crush on her in seventh grade. yep, same with the lack of opinion thing!! like wow much responsibility
too much in relationships if im the only one making decisions.

Originally Posted by MaggieMay

Well um
I actually have 3
Two are on guys (one of which has been there for like three years and the other who I just started liking for no reason other than I was bored and he's awesome)
One of them is on my best friend (who's a girl). She knows about it and doesn't really care (but she's straight) and she's also sleeping over tonight so woo \o/
And uh that's it
I would go more in-depth but I'm kinda lazy, so maybe later

aww ^-^

Originally Posted by LaurenM

Oh so you're talking about Emily!

yep

Originally Posted by rebecca

I'm not fluent in this language, so please, enlighten me as to what cisgender is.

what lauren said. when your gender matches up with your sex.

Originally Posted by rebecca

Does androgynous count as a gender identity?

im not quite sure about that!!
i'm genderfluid, but that's not exactly androgynous.
wait yes! you can be an androgyne.

[WolfWriter]

Is it bad that distance is the only thing holding me back?