Orientation? I guess? I don't know what else to call it :confused:

katchyboo · #1 09-16-2019, 02:48 PM

Ok, so, I assume some of you have read my story "Questions"? If you haven't here's the basic gist:
I was at a summer camp and I saw a girl and thought she was hot and saw a boy a few days later and thought he was hot.
So I think I might be bi, or pan, or something else.
I don't know, I haven't got any evidence other than that one summer camp but there you go *shrug*.

Werty · #2 09-18-2019, 11:10 AM

awn, i'm here! we're here to help.
i'm bi myself and a LOT of us are queer.
if you do a little searching then you'll find everyone who's queer through the forums.
i'd list what i know, but?? even though it's out there for you to see, i don't want to mess with privacy.
but if you're into people, no MATTER who, that's amazing for you!

if your parents aren't okay with that, we DEFINITELY can help you out.

katchyboo · #3 09-18-2019, 02:41 PM

I think my parents would be okay with it, but I haven't told them about that. I guess I want to be a bit more sure about it before I tell them. (the other girls at the camp (I myself am a girl) totally shipped me with the boy.)

Werty · #4 09-19-2019, 03:33 PM

okay but i love your location ngl

katchyboo · #5 10-12-2019, 09:04 AM

I've decided that I am identifying as bi for the time being. I'll probably change it later but still

HannahChen2009 · #6 10-25-2019, 10:09 AM

Late post, but I'm just here to say that if you don't know what labels you want, it's fine not to have any. I struggled with this when i wad younger too and since then I've just decided not to put any labels on myself for the time being.
Do I like girls? Absolutely!!! Girls are wonderful! Could I potentially be romantically attracted to girls? Maybe!! But figuring out girls could even like girls took some time for me so I'm not sure if I have ever had a crush on a girl but I'm pretty sure I did.
Do I like boys? You bet!! Boys are neat and I currently am in a relationship with a boy!
Do I like nb people?? Well I haven't met any yet irl but nb people are wonderful too <3
Thing is, don't pressure yourself to find a label asap. And if you are happy with this label now but feel different later, you are definitely not "fake", you're just figuring things out and your orientation is no less valid.
Good luck kid!!